When i first made love to my girlfriend and fingered her , i had a reall nasty smell on my fingers which made me gag but her personality made me stay with her. Though i didn't go down that area anymore , yesterday i was with her and we kissed and that smell came back i nearly gagged..

I had to tell her as it was really putting me off , she decided to get some special intimate washing soap and i also got her to wear some really nice perfume. We tried to make love again and she asked me if i could smell it in that area and yes i could it put me off again ops:

When she put her clothes away for wash i smelt that smell again and she said is it my knickers , i smelt them and nearly puked i was so close to puking. She turned to me and said its just dried urine.. What the.. Dried urine , everytime i go to the toilet i make sure afterwards im clean. Apparantly all she does is urinate and pull her knickers up. Her knickers were not clean either ( urine ).

I've been going out with her for over a month but its getting to the stage where i don't know what to do. Its putting me off her big time and making me feel sick everytime i think of it. I was brought up by being clean , aftershave / deoderant and my privates are always clean. How come some people not care.

Hi, email me ok...sadia.mullan@hotmail.com,

basically, if it is putting you off, next time, tell her you will rub this cream inside her, it's available at boots, just get any nice fragrance body lotion, which can be applied to that area, I am a female myself, and I totally understand where you're coming from, if it's the personality you love, then she isn't really setting up a good thing for herself, also if she goes out with someone else it wouldn't be nice there either. Plus tell her, it can cause problems, when she ovulates, in the future, it can cause problems for when she has a baby. reccommend her to go to the GP, he might suggest something, offer to go along. Ok always here for a chat.

Take care, hope the bad days go.

You have to be straight because that isn't healthy man. I'm sure she is a great girl but tell her and she 'should' respect your feelings. Surely she isn't happy she can make your stomach twist sometimes? She would want to clean up for herself as well as you. If not you will maybe have to cinsider moving on.

ok so this is really nasty and yukky - but maybe nobody ever taught her?? whatever you do about being with her-you sound like a nice fella so you would be a good person to tell her about basic hygiene....wiping after urinating, washing-at least once a day!! some people are naturally smellier-a hair trim makes it easier to keep lovely....also just suggest she checks for a forgotten tampon....it happens!! while youre at it-suggest she sees a doc for a pap smear and a talk about all this-she should be having them as she is sexually active-well she will be if she scrubs up!! she is probably so used to the smell-and some families just dont teach things like this!!! talk to her-if she has never learnt this stuff-save her from going through life making people puke!! good luck with a very tricky convo darls-but i think you can handle it well

Anyone? , kinda concerned about what to do...

Hope i don't catch anything , ill have to text her and let her know its still bothering me..

tell her to clean up her act. u will have to be harsh because its not doing her anygood being like that. dirty people can catch things, like scabies which you could then catch. the smell down there could be due to infection or just not washing down there. does she clean her self everyday - wiping after peeing is basic hygeane. how old is she because the only time i havent wiped after peeing was when i was in nappies , shes just being lazy not wiping. tell her to clean up or you'll leave!!! you sound like you take care of yourself so i would find someone who does the same.
you like her personality but she makes you gag, there are loads of girls out there, you'll find another girl with a good personality
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