really want him back when you are aware of what he ve done?

My hubby has an affair.Plz advice how i can win him back.

iim onli 12 but i knw alot bout Cheatin,, ii knw yew must lurv im loads but why do you want to get bak wid him? hes obv not worth it. One day you will meet ure one true lurv. nd if he cheated on yew thn you wasnt giivin him wt you wanted as you probs heard before men are onlii gud for onlii 1 thing nd 1 thing onlii nd yew knw wt tht iis,, My mum told meh thiis by the wayy,, Listenn go out and have a good tiime,, You dont need iim to be happy and av a gud liife,, Men are wt eva nd friends are foreva! Remeba tht

KadyBabiehh

Oh my god why on earth would you want him back????????

In my experience/s (its happened to me twice now)...you can't win them back - you've not said if he has actually moved out or if you've only found out. Either way, you must think if you really want him back...if you only found out about the affair recently, your emotions are obviously still raw and the thought of starting out single again is probably daunting (the first time it happened to me I was 26, 7 months ago it happened again and I was just approaching my 40th - both times were heart-wrenching and time and experience hasn't made it any easier 2nd time round).

On both occasions I never saw it coming and only found out about the other woman (who in both cases, was not supposed to exist!) by mistake when holiday tickets were posted to me in error...for this to happen once is humiliating enough...but twice!!! Yet despite even this, both times I would have moved heaven and earth to get my man back.....now 7 months (or 14 years) on, I still have pangs of regret but have accepted that these relationships were not to be, despite what I would have wanted.

You must hold your head high, throw your shoulders back, dust yourself down and reclaim 'you'. Do things you want or have always wanted to do, prove to yourself and everyone else, that you can manage without him and gradually you will realise that cheating lying tow-rags (and I'm being EXCEPTIONALLY polite here!) like your husband just don't deserve you.

I know this is all easier said than done, but wish you happiness for the future.

Hi
Thnx for the advice.Ur right.At dis moment i need to raise my morale.Do things dat make me feel gud.Coz i hav learnt u cant set him ryt if u approach him head -on.Dat way he gets more hyper due to guilt he has in his mind.Rather u start giving him space but also keep watch on him n be more loving n caring although its difficult but its worth.Coz these affairs r short-lived.If the guy genuinely respects this relationship he l realise his mistake else he does nt deserve u.Better to leave him.In my case dis is working.

Hi, sorry to hear that your bloke is having an affair.

please dont get offended i mean no harm.

But men who have affairs have affairs for reasons.

No getting what he wants at home, rejection or finally boredom.
If you really want to keep hold of him without him knowing that you know hes having an affair.
spice things up.
buy sexy underwear, walk round the house with just a thong on.
start doing yoga in the living room,
Light a candle in your bedroom stuff like that.

He will soon know what hes missing
and you will have him back fully to yourself

Think about it?

xx

really want him back when you are aware of what he ve done?