I'm 19 and I've been with my partner for just over two years. Just recently I started a new job and a guy in there has stated his love for me. All I see in him is a really good friend, but more recently Im recognising stronger feelings for him. Nothing has happened and I'm not a cheater so nothing will happen, but I cant help but want it to.

This is really interfering with my current relationship. We text a lot and email, and I go for drinks after work with this new guy (I work in the pub where we drink, so there are people around). I do love my partner, but Im falling for this guy. We're currently trying for a baby as well. What the hell do I do? My heart is tearing in two!!!

Ok, as soon as this guy stated his love you should have said byebye to him completely, then it would not have got to this point. Temptation will always appear, but when committed to someone you should always forget it and never entertain it.

You obviously love your partner very much or you would not be here, and wouldn't be trying for a baby. Your heart is tearing but not yet torn. You need to forget this "other guy" and concentrate on you and your partner. Stop texting, stop Emailing, and if necessary find another job.

This is different and new thats why you are feeling the way you do. The right thing and best thing is to forget it and carry on with your partner, you ALREADY love him and are committed to him thats why you both are trying for a baby.

Seriously FORGET the other guy, and stay with your partner. You obviously love him.

Hi,

difficult situation!! you sure its not just the atension you like? perhaps you need to spend more time with your partner.