Do all relationships go flat with no passion??

Hi there ive been with my partner back together for 7 years we have a 3 years old daughter and things are happy at home BUT there is just no passion there at all. Am i stuck in a rut, with not knowing any better or do all relationships just get like this? I can not think of the last time i wanted to have sex and now cant even be bothered to kiss etc. but i do love him as a partner and his a fantastic dad.

Hi

When your daughter goes to bed do you cuddle up on the sofa together and watch a movie,glass of wine etc?Light some candles with relaxing aromas,get some oils and ask him to give you a massage.Try and make it work

Or you can ditch him,sleep with loads of young guys that want you as a notch on their bedposts.You begin to feel useless and end up looking like mutton dressed as lamb desperate for a secure relationship.
(which is basically what you have now)

maybe the love for him as gone , but you have care for him , that happen to me.i got confused between love and care. i was married for 20 years i realised when we split that what i had for him was only care no love. (he was cheating to i found)
iam now in a 2 year relationship, i have strong reelings for this guy i do love him.
i feel for you.
have a break together, for a few nights if you can,re kendal things, life does change when you have children. takecare taa x

Hiya

its so hard -have been with my chap 4 12 years and we have 3 kids - i feel the same and we are tryibg to get thi ngs back cos its been so bad recently but i do nt know how to do it - im only 28 and i know i settled down 2 young - av had enough of trying though - i love him with all my heart but as for re kindling thigs - can it ever happen - i dont know!! im sorry im of no help - just wish i was happy am proper fed up!!!