I really need help. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years now, He is in the army so i dont see him alot. He used to be crazy in love with me, used to tell me he loves me all the time, we broke up twice and there has been one night stands with other people in between for both of us. He went away with the army for 5 months and i found out i was pregnant he was over the moon. But when he came back he had a month off, the first 2 weeks home he was normal, all cuddley with me but then he started acting strange, saying he needed time with his friends, i got a bit funny with this as we usually do things together with his friends, he is because i cant do much where im pregnant? Then he is saying he wants a lads holiday, He broke up with me and told me that he dosnt want to be with me no more as im always accusing him of cheating and i text him all the time, but the excuse would change every time. I was heart broken and kept texting him, he then said we will take things slow. He likes to go out alot drinking. He never texts me to tell me he loves me anymore. he dosnt really want to spend time with me. Then i suddenly got a text saying im really starting to miss you now and an i love you. Im confused! Has my hormones been getting to him? He needs to understand he has a baby on the way. I love him so much and i dont want to lose him, i have told him this many times but he just tells me to stop saying things like that. Today he rang me and was drinking, he keeps saying he needs time with his mates but when he is with his mates i know he goes clubbing and flirts with other women, Its not on where im pregnant and only have 10 weeks left, he is really getting to me, when i wasnt pregnant he was obsessive and only cared about me. Maybe it is my hormones??? Please help!

Hi Sam, you don't say how old you are?
you sound some what young. if not very insecure. did you get pregmant to try to secure your relationship with your on off boyfriend? did he want to have a baby?
you start your message Men!! while sweet heart it's you who got pregnant.its hard for men too one day sigle next day your going to be a dad!
but while you love and want your partner to be supportive of you and the baby, he is proberly frecking out inside. you have a gift being a woman you have a inner strenth that comes with being a mother, tap into that right now, for your sake and you sake of the baby who feels every thing your feeling.
give your partner the space he needs to grow up.
the more you tell him your scared of loosing him, the more you inforce this.the more you will push him away.and you bfear will be your reallity.
re focus see the three of you as a happy family, keep doing this when fear creeps in,
affirm a possitive out come and thats what you will create.
beleive in your self, the more he see you as not being dependant on him emotionaly, the easier it will be him to stay next to you.
as for the hormoes... good luck with them!
hope your dreams come true.