Being ignored...

...well I have just started seeing a guy, we met on a dating site. we got on really well, chatted online everyday, phone calls, text messages were always going backwards and forwards, then we met and got on even better...its all early days with the two of us, but last week we spent the day together, had a lovely time, then i had to pick up my 6 year old son from school, so my fella came with me, and the pair met! my son took to him well and that made me so happy !
...but from that day onwards I haven't heard a thing from him, Ive sent a few text messages to see if he is ok ect, left voicemail on his mobile, all are being ignored! I didnt read too much into it to begin with, but last night he signed into msn, so i sent a message, just asking whats going on, all of my attempts to ask him whats going on get ignored...its really hurting me, if he was to say 'sorry cant do this anymore' then i could move on, but nothing! i dont understand it!!

was it because he met my son, he knew i had a son, but the realisation of me really being a mummy has scared him off...i just dont get it

any ideas

x k

I know its not easy

Hi,

Look u've sent txt msgs. infact you have everything possible to keep the lines of communication open. If he's not responding...could be he's gotten busy or he's got something to take care off. Don't msg him or call him it might make him think ur desparate..be confident and continue do your doing all things u normally do. Once he sorts everything out he'll call u or msg. Guys think ur too clingy if keep calling or msging trust me. Especially if it hasn't been too long into the relationship. They get scared off. Be patient.

Good luck tc.

Hi k

hi k its sab.
i think he's very childish did he know you had a son before he probably didn't so if that is how he reacts let him on.
he's got your texts and messages thats all you can do so i wouldnt worry about it anymore he's obviously way too childish for a grown up relationship

good luck

hi sab

he knew from day one that i had a son...its just sooo weird

time will tell i guess

ive done my bit so its done to him to make the move!!

Hey crazydiamond

Babe, if he was getting your texts etc before all the time then surely he should get them now. If he wanted you enough he would be running down to the shops for credit on his phone or buying ten new batteries and chargers to make sure his phone was charged from now on. Truth is, if a guy likes you enough he'll do whatever it takes to get back to you.

Valuable quote: "No man is ever worth your tears, and the one who is... wouldn't make you cry".

Just think about it, you don't have to agree with me but atleast think about it. x x x Hoping I helped you x x x

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Those are wise words, and have taken them onboard...thank you kittycom