Hi,

I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 8 months a few months ago for various reasons. I found out that 3 days after we split up he slept with another girl. The next day, we bumped into each other and we decided to give things another go.

He kept on telling me that nothing had happened and that it was just a kiss but then after about a month, I started hassling him (I know I was wrong but I had a gut feeling something went on.)and he told me about her and what went on.

I cant help feeling that he keeps on comparing me to her everytime we are intimate and I feel so let down. I love him very much and I dont want to split up again. Things were perfect before I found out but now its like there is something between us and I dont feel close to him at all. I have lost all self-confidence and dont feel good enough. Im so stressed out because I cant seem to move on.

Can anyone help?? What should I do?

Thanks,

Jo

just continue on breaking up with him....
there's no point on keeping him
when the more he's with you...the more
you are hurt....

I think you should get out with your Girlfriend's and see what else is out there! ) There's plenty of fish...........

First of all im guessin he only denied it because he didnt want to hurt you after he did something stupid, he is probably feeling very guilty about it n didnt want to talk about it.

Secondly i doubt he is comparing, if you and him were having sex before you broke up with him you should kno what he likes and he will kno what you like in the bedroom. there was trust between you and him and probably a good sex life which means no girl could ever compare to you especially after only being apart for 3 days.

Talk to him about it, let him kno how you feel and get your confidence back. Its perfectly normal how your feeling but it doesnt make it a good thing as it could ruin your relationship with him or anyone in the future..hope iv helped in a small way

BabyBlue x x