i feel so bad, but i read my boyfriends emails the other day and he has been emailing this girl about going to see her one weekend for sex and being dirty with her, is he cheating. and am i stupid for staying with him. i dont want to confront him because i shouldn't have been snooping.

trust your intuition girl...

Youre right...you shouldnt have been snooping
But if he never gave you any reason to feel the need to then you wouldnt have had to go to the lengths you did!
And look, its paid off- Youve caught him!
[Well...this instance anyway...There may be more?]

You deserve better!

Confront him, if he even starts talking back about invading his privacy- throw the cheating right in his face...
A leopard never changes his spots...
You need to tell him, or it will forever eat you up

Good luck x

you were right to trust ya gut instinct as it was tellin u sumthing but if i was u i wud spk up n confront him noone deserve to b treated like that hope u sort it out tc xxx

This happened to me.

I kept quiet and now five years down the line he has cheated on me 3 times.
I think if people have the potential to do this, it is deceit and none of us want this quality in a partner. Also, deceit can sometimes breed more deceit...

Sometimes we snoop because we already 'have a feeling' something is not right. Women are so great at having this and less effective at responding to it and I think we can all admit to be an example of this at some point.

I hope you have the courage to do the right thing.

Jx

no you shouldnt snoop but when things make you feel like your relationship is bad and you find something like that you have every right to confront him there is no reason for you to stay in a cheating relationship because your to scared to speak up

Too right confront him!! Your doubts have been proven. Dont stay with a guy that treats you like that you deserve better. revenge is sweet, what is good for the goose is good for the gander!

Don't feel bad...It's not your fault...It's better for you to talk with him...Before you break up with him it will be easier to you...As long as you waiting this situation will be over it will last longer and it will be harder for you to leave him...

I am sorry to hear about your bf cheating..... Believe me I know how it feels,since I discovered my husbands email.s to a girls about sex.What you bf does is cheating and get out of the mess, before it is getting worse.
I had cheating bf and it is a hard to know he is unfaithfull but it is still less complicated. Imagine kids and marriage,home with him and then you discover...
I am sure you deserve better.... Confront him and see what he has to say,but what ever he sayas will not be good enough there is not excuse for cheating.

Don't feel bad about snooping. He is more in the wrong than you are
Confront him, you may have got the wrong end of the stick.
If he is cheating, GET OUT.
Your snooping might have got you a lucky escape

I've done something similar. I found out my ex-bf was cheating by readin his txt messages. He was so busy trying to think of excuses that he didn't even mention the fact I'd snooped. If I were you I'd confront him and if he says you were snooping you can say he gave you reason to snoop! Besides, what he's done is unacceptable in my opinion, wether he planned to go through with it or not.