Firstly let me say I know I am too possessive. I have issues I need to resolve but I would like comments on this situation. I really need some help so go on, make my day..

My Wifes female friend has recently met a new bloke, he is married and they had a relationship and he left his wife for her. My wife met him once when she was round her friends house.
I have noticed that every now and then he texts her or calls my wife. I am pretty sure there isnt anything in it but it just seems odd and not a normal thing to happen. It would be like me calling my mates wife every now and then for a chat or whatever.

As a side issue I also believe that my wifes friend sent my wife naughty pics of this bloke at some point.

I am not asking for comments on whether I have issues, or my wife is seeing him but would I be wrong to say to my wife or this chat to stop making or receiving these calls or texts,.,

I would really appreciate your comments from both men and women.

I think you are over reacting to the situation. I think you should talk to your wife and ask her if her friend is aware that her new man is texting to her. Jumping to conclussions and accusing them of what? Now as far as the pictures go are they nude photos? Then that falls on your wife's friend disrespecting her man. That's not right why would your wife want photos of him? I certainly wouldn't want to see nude photos of my friends guy photos! It just depends what the texts and conversations consist of. Is he asking your wife for advice on her friends taste for gifts favorite color it may as inocent as that. Before you jump to conclussions I would ask your wife. If you want to see how often they do communicate then look at your cell phone bill and see how much his number shows up on calling and texting. If it's at odd hours of the day or night then I would question it. It may be nothing so before you make yourself look insecure and make an uncomfortable situation where you all couldn't spend time together as couples I would find out first. Good Luck!

i think u have a good reason for this chat to stop and your wife should know that too

you know for a bloke who doesnt want to discuss issues - you bring up a few!! not the least of which..are you aware that you come across rather aggressively? now as to this situation...have you thought about asking her?? he may be just asking her stuff about her friend-you know does she like indian food etc so maybe he can surprise her...ive had blokes do this - women friends are the best source of ideas for blokes wanting to do nice things for their lady...also in his situation(left wife etc-which neither you or i are in a position to judge)-he is probably without some of his familiar company and just happy to make friends-dont make the mistake of thinking your wife is about to fall into someones arms just because her friend has-give her credit for a bit more intelligence ok?? just because women tend to all go the the loo together it doesnt mean we have to do everything together!!! as for the pics-probably just girls having a giggle together-we dont view these things quite the same way as blokes...so do i think you should TELL her to stop?? mate you are not her father and she is not a little girl...talk to her be involved in her life -take an interest in her friends and trust your wife...being wrongly suspected of this sort of thing is absolute poison to a relationship!!