my current boyfriend made a comment not long ago that i just cant get out of my head. We were arguing about sex and he came out with `well my ex used to do the "train", i like it like that` well i went mad and argument turned into a huge bust up! We made up and everything is fine but i still cant get what he said out of my mind!! I feel that i cant compare to how his ex was in bed, and that hes not satisfied! He says he prefers missionary with me! What?? Is this normal? I dont want to split up with him, i love him to bits! I cant tell him its stuck in my head as we sorted things out and the last thing i want is another argument about it. Help me please. xx

Reneej-that's horrible advise, if she has had a bigger ex in the past and her boyfriend is say much smaller and not big enough to satisfy her that is different but saying something like that if it isn't true just out of spiteful revenge is childish, cruel and potentially very damaging to a relationship. Your man's penis represents his masculinity insulting it when it's actually OK is the worst thing you could ever do! That is horrible and upsetting. What he said was terrible as well as you should always appreciate what you have and never compare to previous partners but I wouldn't suggest doing that at all. If somehow he found out you said it specifically to hurt him he may even finish you. Talk round it. If he loves you and understands how you feel he will listen and not want to argue.

maybe just so he can see how you fell try telling him you wish he was a little bigger in that region because your ex was and it helped hit certin spots that made sex more enjoyable than maybe he'll see how it feels

i met the same problem as your two years back, when i just create a relationship with my current boyfriend and one day after sex in bed he suddenly came up with" your breast is not as big as my ex and try to make it bigger",i have the same reaction as you at that time but now we are still being together,what i did is i try to satisfy him from other aspects and let him realize i am much better than his ex except the size of the breast. since it is not all for sex even it is important still.now he really care about me and never upset me in this regard.