How do you leave a man you've been with for 14 years?

that's quite hard....
unless....there's some
hurtful and negative things going on
between the two of you...

unless you did not say the reason behind your leaving i cannot help you.once you asked from yourself whatever the reason will be if you set your mind to be away from him then why it is difficult for you?

hello,

why do you want to leave him and whats the situation? why do you find it so hard to leave him?

underloved

hi hun honesty is the best policy! if your not happy in your relationship then tell him, try and make things work before you rush out of a relationship! but if this doesn't work then just tell him your not happy and cant go on with this relationship! don't bury your head in the sand or you will get yourself emotionally and physically depressed! and trust me you don't want to go down that road! the sooner you tell him the less strain you will have on yourself! ok it will hurt him, but he will get over it everyone dous but don't put your happiness in jeopardy! all the best let me know how you get on or if my advice has helped in anyway

I'm new to this site, and just found your post. How did you get on?? A month before you posted this, I had left my partner of 14 years. Its v.hard, but I'm now so glad I did it!

hi i was with my ex for 15 years, its hard to leave but trust me why stay in a loveless relationship for the sake of it.

on why you want to leave-if you have any fears for your safety do all your preparation quietly first-money in a separate account- somewhere to go-friends to be there for you....if its over and it just needs to finish tell him-straightforward and calmly-and give him answers as best you can then go-dont prolong the pain and dont cause unneccessary pain - good luck