I've been with my guy for two years. I live with him in his mom's house (she's only home on weekends, which isn't much better, but I'll live)

I've always been an insatiable flirt but since I moved in with him I can't seem to stop thinking about a guy I met at school. This other guy has spent countless hours talking with me about everything, he knows me inside and out, and likes me, but we're both in relationships. I find myself planning to sleep with him any time I plan to meet him for the day. We haven't, though, because he's a good guy and won't let me screw up my life by doing something I'll regret, he doesn't want to ruin my current relationship... Or at least he doesn't want to confuse my feelings.

My boyfriend knows I have feelings for him, but I don't think he knows how deep they go, that and have been feeling more bored with my current. I love him a lot, and I care about his well-being, but I don't want to have sex with him almost at all anymore (maybe once every two weeks instead of four times a day like it used to be) and when I do... I'm thinking of other people.

What I can't figure out is if it's just that I'm stressed out from work that's lowering my sex drive, or if I just don't find him attractive in that way anymore. I can't tell if I should stay, or leave.

Also - We have toys and clothing for intimate times, so I can't see it being the lack of available "spice."

Can someone offer any advice?

I think that if you listen to yourself you know the right answer, and you know what to do, but you need the space and time to do it.

you need some time apart from your boyfriend to decide whether you really want to be with him? do you have to stay in his house ir is there anywhere else you can go?
all the best
Sarah x