Hi I just want to know how to react on the next situation. I told a guyfriend I like him and he never responded on my quetion how he feels. Now my sister is getting between us. Before I met this guy I also had feelings for another guy and he knew about it so my sister slept (walked in while they where doing it)with the guy when she found out about the feelings, know I'm afraid it will happen to this guy to. She suddenly started to act like his friend and know my chances with this guy is almost 20% less than what it was. The other day I confronted my sister about this situation and told her how I felt about the way she is acting and she told me nothing is going on. But she is lying on his lap and suddenly she is the best friend ever in his life, always sitting with him wanting to talk to him alone tickleing him everywhere and all that stuff. He said to me I must stop over reacting and stop being jealous because there is nothing but why won't he talk to me and tell me how he feels. I got the guts to tell him about my feelings why can't he tell me. It is breaking my heart in peaces because we also had a thing going on before I told him about it and now nothing is happening we were good friend always talking about everything. He is staying in our house too, so it is even harder. My friend said he also gets jealouse when I talk to other guys on the phone but I don't know. Please help me solve this situation. THank you very much sadheart1

i'm just glad i don't have any sister...
but there is a friend of mine who was in the
same situation...
she likes the guy soo much...they were friends...
her older sister knew about this....but behind her
back....she (the older one)kept on calling him, seeing him...
and sending him sweet msgs....
the guy then finally revealed that he likes
the older girl more and that she's more like
a sister to him...
as hurtful as it is....she accepted the fact
wholeheartedly and had moved on.....
still she remained a loving sister to her
older sister....

WELL ITS NOT MY BUSINESS, BUT IF YOU NEED AN ADVICE, YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR SISTER THAT SHE IS YOUR SISTER AND THATS IS SO DIRTY FOR GOING BEHIND YOUR BACK, TEL HER YOU REALLY HAD TRUE FEELINS FOR THAT GUY, AND YOU JUS WAS THERE WAITING ON HIS ANSWER AND STUFF LIKE THAT. TEL HER IF SHE DONT REALIZE THAT, SHE IS DIRTY THAT YOU SCARED TO FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH SOMEBODY ELSE BECAUSE YOU THINK SHE IS GOING TO GO BEHIND YOUR BACK AGAIN THATS WHAT I WILL DO IF THATS WAS MY SITUATION

your sister is behaving really badly-we dont treat anyone -but especially our sisters this way!!this is complicatd by him being in your house-is he a boarder or what? as for him - i suspect he was just having a bit of fun with you and when you told him your feelings- he hasnt told you the same because he doesnt feel the same....sorry...and he is just as prepared to have his fun with your sister and neither of them are showing any consideration for your feelings!! id suggest you keep your social life away from both of them-and go out and have fun with one of these guys that you talk to on the phone!! take care xx

thank you very much yesterday I fiound out that he send one of my friends a message and told her how he felt about my sister and now i know, but the best part of all this is why can't he just tell me this and I will leave him alone and then he can be with her no matter what I mean if he wants her he must take her I felt bad about everything but I can't take it anymore. I have sleepless nites about this but everyone is telling me a different story. I was there for him no matter what went wrong and he helped me allot but I did the same to him thank you very much for the support I really appreciate it alot it helped me to understand the situation better and now I know. Enjoy the day