Hi,

i Wanted some advice, I have been ina relationship just over a year, i was with y ex for 3 yrs i have only been single 4 months in between each relationship and my past relationship i cheated and so did my ex, although i am only 20,

The thing is I had to work at a differnt base from my usual work (same business) and i met a guy there who i wasnt instantly attracted to him but hes funny and a bit of a flirt although not just with me.. but his eyes remind me of my ex, and i guess i like the attention, i havnt contemplated cheating b4 and i dont really want to but i have had quite racy phone calls with him since (worked with him bout 3month ago) he has a gf of 2-3 yrs and is 24 liek my bf, my bf is kinda dull just seems to be interested in his car and doesnt like me going out(jelous) i have been dreaming about this other guy and cant stop thinking of him, said in a kind if matey/flirty way for him to come up to my work on his day off next week, he said he would but i think i would be very disapointed if he didnt, i feel like i dont know what to do, i dont want to cheat but i dont think i want to finish wiv my bf or that he would with his gf but i cant stop thinking of him!
what do i do..
he doesnt know he just thinks i want to sleep with him although he said he thinks im out of his league! (bless)

xx

it's not so nice to use other people
especially if feelings and emotions are involved...
you're actually using this guy to get away
with your man...

Hun..you are suffering from sparkle..that lovley squishy excited attraction/obsessed phase that turns our brains off!
Biiiig danger here..he's not free..you will be getting used. You're not free and you are using him.
But keep it safe...don;t get into somethign you'll regret.
Enjoy the fun & flirt..he has already said nicely that he will not be serious with you.."out of his league"
Your boyfriend might need to be made a little jealous..that will keep him on his toes...but pls don't
do anythign that in a few months time you coudl regret bigtime
hugs
H