hi there, i am a police officer and i started after i had got married, my wife seems to think that because i work with police women i will be jumping into bed with every one of them, she has only started thinking this over the past 6 months or so. wat do i do

just give her assurance and security...
make her feel comfortable about your job...
go out with her during your day off..
spend time with her....

hello,

seems like she's a little insecure, its hard to secure someone when they are insecure, they need to trust you thats what i thought it was all about.why doesnt she trust you ? cant she see that all you think about is her. why would you jump in to bed with anyone else when your happy with your wife?

have some time together when you can, make her feel special in what ever way you can. A romantic meal together, night out somewhere romantic, weekend away together. What ever you do make her feel special and wanted.

hope it helps

underloved

She needs reassuring, and comfort. Make a point of telling her how wierd, scary, unstable and horrid and unatractive these women are,,,and how you love being with her.Don;t lie..just emphasise the negative...NOT the positive. Say you wish she worked with you. Promise on your own life that you will never get involved..tell her of some failed relationships others are having at work and how that is such a bad idea. Hun its a compliment that she thinks you are so irrresistable!)and then...put that in a police uniform....I can why she would worry. If it gets worse, turn it around and ask what SHE is doing all day..and with whom...if she gets cross or insulted..then explain that this is how she is making YOU feel. Eventually you will need to agree that you will trust each other..and not take each other for granted.
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