hi, i have been with my partner for 7 years, we have had a bad few months and he started seeing another girl. we split for january and contiunued to try and work thins out. last thursday we decided to make a go of it, and i told him to he had to finish with this girl. he said he has, however, i think he saw her saturday and again yesterday and stayed at a hotel. im throught the hurt, pain and anger - do i tell him to go??? any advice welcome thanks

hi hun! confront him asap!! you cant spend your time wondering whether hes with that girl or not! you will get depressed by doing this your happiness is much more important!! let me know how you get on! xxxx

i generally feel that if it didn't work the first time, it won't the second, a leopard never changes its spots etc.
once a cheat always a cheat and by taking him back, you've practically told him that its ok! show him who's boss

xxx

Do not make a hasty decision, ask him first to ensure that you have the full facts.

What makes you think you saw him with her? do you have access to his accounts to give you evidence that he spent money on hotel etc.

Once you have all this info and are sure it is true then kick him out - if you do not you may always wandered if he did cheat on you, and that hurts especially if you do love him.