Hi everyone,

Im new here...and im a guy. I have a question about how to get my girlfriend to cum during sex.

Getting her to cum from oral sex is no problem, but she can never cum from penetration, and still never has before. Why is that? Lasting long isnt a problem, sometimes i take too long, no matter what kind of sex i try with her, slow and pationate or agressive and rough...nothing...she says it feels increadible and im the best blah blah...but still never cums...ive read that only 25% of women experience orgasams through penetration...and that certain postitions help achieve this....we've tried quite a few positions...but didnt work.

maybe some ladies on here can help me out, tell me what to do, whats the best way to make this happen.

Thanks.

She needs clitoral stimulation while you ... then.

Maybe go down on her for a bit, then switch to using your penis against her clitoris - run the head of the shaft up and down her clitoris, labia, etc, keep her aroused.

My friend recommends 'bumping' the clitoris while you thrust, or maybe grinding will work? Encourage her to experiment with the angle of her hips & the weight of her body/your body, try a few different ways of touching the clitoris whilst having penetrative sex.

And good luck! Let us know what happens.

Alot of women don't come during pennetration. Bascially during oral you are stimulating her clitorus and during sex its difficult to get the same degree of friction. With her on top is generally thought to be the best position for female orgasm. But don't take it as your failing, she's still enjoying it !

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Hi i'm new as well.

I can not help you, because i have the same problem. I cannot get an orgasm from penetration.

so, i guess i'm one of the unlucky girls....

If you know please let me know..

regards

It helps if you get on top and let the boy bounce you up and you still riding him yall workk together at the same time.

Hi there,

I'm probably not the best to tell you, not having had much experience, but have heard that clitoral and G spot orgasms are much more common than orgasms during penetration.

You can either try to hit her G spot yourself with your fingers - do you know where it is? or buy a G spot vibe.

Most penises (sp?) aren't shaped the right shape to hit the G Spot, so many women use a g spot vibe to hit the spot before then going onto penetration.

A friend of mine, feels like it's unfinished if she hits the G spot and then doesn't go onto penetration so penetration is still needed!

It usually helps to stimulate the clit before hitting the G spot, as the G spot is more sensitive when already sexually aroused.

Do look into different toys, men and women were made to make babies, not necessarily to have excellent climaxes during sex, so careful research has gone into producing products that make sex even more enjoyable - for both men and women.

I believe you can get toys that go over the penis and during penetration, the attachmet hits the clit, so your girlfriend will get the clit stimulation as well as penetration at the same time!

Go for it - you may as well give it all a try!

i just wanted to inform you that the "G" spot is in the vagina and you are correct about one thing. The shape or better called the "curve" of a mans mamber plays a big part in hitting the G spot. The G spot is located on the upper vaginal wall, thus a woman tilting her hips downward makes it easier to hit the G spot and increases the chances in some woman for a orgasm during penatration. Just thought you would like to know.

Honestly these things are shaped like mens bits but when used on the outside oooooh! this can be enjoyed by both of you if she uses it during sex!..works for us! oh get a small one , its the batteries not the size that matters

"oh my god" - hopefully she will come - worth a try!! good luck!

Everyone is different, but try do her from behind and rub her clit at the same time - always works for me! or get her to go on top - I never used to come in this position, until recently when I discovered you have to really stick with the rhythm!! it's like your riding away getting knackered then

...when I had my first orgasm, but not through penetration. Only at 36 it happenend. We had long foreplay. Making sure the klit was standing up. Then he on top of me, moving slowly and then going in very deep and keeping still and I squeeze. My klit is pressing against his body. He whispered in my ear he loved me and I cried and came. It was so beautyful and overwhelming. So much liquid came out of me and he loved it! But not all men do so woman is worried to get the sheet wet. But he told me these liquids are so sweet and and he loves the warm feeling. I guess it is a lot about loosing inhabitions, harder for women to do, than for man.
P.S. Apolagize for mistakes. I am german.

Well, up until recently I was one of the unlucky ones that had never achieved an orgasm through penetration (Im 27), and not through want of trying either.

Then one session, it happened......and then again and agian. Now it happens pretty much every time. Its like a switch was flicked.

For me, it has to be him on top, very deep and very fast. Occasionaly it has happened when Im face down and he's over me, but again he is pumping rapidly!!

i just recommend relaxing. Letting go and enjoying it without thinking about making it happen too much!!

ive got to say I have the best sex I have ever had in my life now, and he was a virgin until he met me too!!

I taught him everything he knows!!Lol!

I have trouble also...No matter what he does...Def feels amazing...I can feel the presure and it feels like IM ready to explode but it just stops just not sure if Im not relaxed enough or what...I have never ever felt anything come out of me even when I pleasure myself...so dont get discouraged on trying to please your women...