if anybody can help me with this 1 it would be very much appreciated.
im only young and have only had 1 sexual partner so i no i have alot to learn..

wen having sex with my now ex partner i never once reached a climax..
however our sex together never lasted very long :S could this be the reason for me not climaxing?

also there is a spot inside of me that when it is touched to firmly with fingers it makes me want to pee... now i have read the blog on here about the g-spot and peeing but i am not convinced. im unsure that i was reaching anyform of sexual pleasure as i actually wasnt having much fun !:S so what does that mean ?! im guessing it didnt help that i wasnt that relaxed as i didnt enyoy my partner and i envolving in this form of intamacy.
please help me
thanks xx

you dont have to blame yourself it is your partner who should be blamed he did not attend to your needs.....
1. your partner must be pretty poor in bed because he cant cotrol himself or he rushed into sex before heating you up
2. you should try other techniques with your new partner and this tmie tell him to go easy and do not rush into the penetration stage but spend more time fondling with each other and then try oral sex it will blow your mind