Hey all,

I am a 18 year old female and Im worried and embrassed because I dont think I masturbate properally.

For one I can only masturbate to porn or reading erotic stories. I just dont get turned on any other way.

Also its the way I masturbate...I can only come by pentration and grinding on something. Fingers and just playing with myself does not work in fact fingering myself just the feel of my insides makes me a bit ill.


This isnt such a problem at the moment but If I get roommates or move in with a boyfriend, I dont know if it would be possible to continue.


It the same when I have sex. Oral or fingering does nothing for me and I can only come through pentration and even better on top.


Am I normal?

Any help would be apperciated.

Thanks,

Courtney

Yes you are totally normal! Most females cant orgasm through penetration alone! I have to grind too! I think when you say you only masturbate to porn etc thats normal too! If you do try masterbate without just relax. I am 30 and still need to find spots thats others have already found! Everybody is different! I think most will feel like you too!
Cath x