I have always liked women, but men too. I have a bf but recently all I can think about is going down on another girl and being with her. Whats wrong with me, i dont understand why I am feeling such a strong urge. I dont know what to do. Help

Hello im allie
lol i totally get what your saying Sonya350.
I fancy guys but recently i dont bother with them at all! im just fantasising about women and it would be such a dream if i could go with one. Its soooo fustrating!! lol GRR and if i watch lesbian porn yeah that is worse. I have some bi sexual friends.. what do you suggest lol i have kissed and felt up another girl. :/ lol

i have been feeling this urge for sometime now! i really want to do a girl!

Hi
if you are your partner are in a strong loving relationship it may be worth mentioning to him about your fantasies and asking if he would ike a threesome?

Me and my partner have threesomes. Always with women though as i am bisexual and would rather a woman than 2 men lol.

If not he may be happy for you to be with another woman whilst he just watches. That way at least you dont cheat on him.

I hope that helps even if just a little

Good luck

Michelle

i had that for about a year of my relationship with my boyfriend!! i actually ended up sleeping with my best mate (dont tell him that! ha ha) a couple of times which i really enjoyed and coz i got it out of my system that seemed to stop the fantasies! obviously im not saying go and cheat on your boyf but maybe you could have a break or what about lesbian porn, it doesnt really do it for me as its to fake but you might like it?!
not sure if thats any help at all ha ha! but its definately hard liking both sexes coz when you have one you always want the other!
c xxx

Thanks for the message. I tried lesbian porn but that makes it worse, then I really need to do something lol, its so bad and I cant believe I am admitting this on a forum for everyone to read, but I have had such full on dreams for the past 2 nights, where I am giving head to another girl, and literally eating her,, mhmm you know what I mean, and the worse thing is like oh god my bf was talking to me about something (sex orientated ofcourse) and I was wondering how it would be like with a female, he would kill me if he found out what I was thinking half the time.

Seriously, am considering going to soho for some,,,,if this doesnt stop because its driving me nuts lol

Well i know what your going through. Ever since i was a young teenager i have always dreamt of sleping with a woman. I have had 2 3sums, both with another woman and a man, and 2 lesbian experiences. I have a partner of 1yr and a half, he knows about it but i dont ever mention it to him or to anybody else, so its really something i keep to myself. I always fantasise about me and another woman as it was such a big turn on doing it!! Did you ever fulfill your fantasy? Let me know how you got on.

xx

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Hey Lovelylaydee

Nah havent managed to succeed on my fantasies yet lol been too busy and too scared, dont know who or how to approach someone. Think all of this is probably gona end up being just fantasties, though one can hope one day they may be more.

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Hi sonya350,

I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I agree, it has to be the most frustrating thing ever. I am so ultra girly and I also fancy femme types.

Luckily I have a supportive boyfriend who is happy to let me go out and have fun with girls but it's not that easy to meet like-minded girls.... trust me!!!

Also, I have to agree with you about the girl porn thing too. A few watches of 'Be My Bitch2' (find it, it's great!!) and I'm just frustrated for bloody months!!!!

Anyway, what I wanted to say to you was, if you want to discreetly meet a girl to experiment, I could recommend a bi dating site that I use (pm me if you want the detials, even if it's just for a nosey). It sounds seedy as hell (and there are some horrors on the site) but I found it the easiest way to meet and speak to girls. I managed to meet 2 girls through the site and they were both absolutely lovely and gorgeous too.

It would be so much easier with the support of your boyfriend though and I don't think I would have had the guts to actually meet girls otherwise. Have you tried any subtle hints? You might just be surprised

Lots of luck hun
Steph XXXXXXXXXX