Aaaaaargh!! I feel like I am about to burst. I have fantasised for a long time about being with another girl sexually for a long time but it's not like you can just walk up to another girl and be like 'Hey, I fancy you' cos you'll probably just get a slap.
I've never been to a gay club and the thought frightens me because I don't want a lesbian, just someone like me who's bi-curious. Anyone have any helpful advice or has the same feelings as me???

im not gay but i would love to be with another girl, just for the experience!

HI THERE,IAM MARRIED WITH A GOOD SEX LIFE,BUT I HAVE ALLWAYS WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH A WOMEN,I ASKED MY HUSBAND FOR A THREESOME BUT HE SAID NO.SO FOR A WHILE I WAS FINE BUT THEN I COULDNT HELP THINKING ABOUT IT,SO A COUPLE OF NIGHTS AGO I SLEPT WITH A VERY SEXY AND HORNY WOMEN,WOW IT WAS AMAZING I GOT TO SAY I WOULD DO IT AGAIN IF IT WAS OFFERD.MY HUSBAND NEW AND HE DIDNT WANT TO WATCH AS HE SAID IT DID NOTHING FOR HIM.IAM NOT GAY BUT IAM SO GLAD I DID IT,BEST SEX EVER ,BUT DONT TELL MY HUSBAND,I TOLD HIM IT WAS JUST OK.

i'm straight, but i think most women have secret fantasies about being with another woman.... i have a gay aunt and a bisexual cousin, so i've been to gay bars.. it made me curious, so i've made out with girls, but i think i'm way to nervous to ever try a three some lol

I am with my long term partner and I think if I hadn't met him I would be with a woman. I know most men probably would love thier women to like other girls but he doesn't as I have alot of gay friends and he knows that i could just as much leave him for a woman as I could a guy. I am stressed out because I work with all men and they do the usual perve thing with hot women and I have a look too and it gets me hot.
The furthest I have been is kissing a girl but I ould like to try more just to see if its real or just a fantasy. I like really girly girls.

Cecilia.x

Hey there

Well i can understand what your saying, I have a partner and ive bin with him over a year and we are expecting our first child. i love him 2 bits. ive had a few experiences with other woman and it was great and now i can never get it out my mind. girly girls do it 4 me, not butch, but, im not a lesbian so that makes sence. my partner knows and isnt so bothered about it.But theres nothing wrong with thinking about it

J x

Yeah it's a nightmare isn ... !

Judging by all your replies, it appears that there are far too many of us girly-girls who are attracted to same but are all experiencing the same difficulties!!!

I'm a Manchester girly... any takers??? XXX

Just become a member of this forum, Ive been bi-curious for a while, my husband is ok with that, but I dont know where or how to begin. Any ideas?

Gill

How far to you then.... he he he!
You could always do abit of cyber sex, girls on gaydar.com seem up for that!
I also fancy girls as well as guys but only straight looking girly girls like me, its so annoying that you never know if someones into it but you do generally get a bit of a vibe,just a sort of flirtiness!
xxx

I know exactly how you feel my boyfriend knows i am more tahn bicurious and always buys great girl-girl porn with toys I get so wet watching especially when the toys come is it just going to be a unfullfilled fantasy ? to share my toys with another

I feel the same! It really turns me on the thought of being with another woman. The butch lesbian thing does'nt do it for me at all prefer a girly girl who is bi. My bf recently agreed to a 3some but its very difficult fiding a girl, dont want anyone either of us know as could get way to complicated just want it to be no strings sex. so know excatly how u feel!

You girls... I know exactly what you mean. Best way is to identify someone you know through that nifty "I've never" game... then arrange to go out with them and get the two of you slightly loaded (not too much, just to open up), then ask her in a husky playful voice if she'd fancy a kiss... That can go far. It did for me

How far?
x

i want 2 have a gf but i'm not sure if i should have 1. Can u help me?

Try my technique. It's ideal in a night-club because it's more anonymous and if you ever see the person again and are ashamed you can convincingly say you were just completely drunk...

And doing that will help you discover if you like doing it, or just the idea of doing it: there's a huge difference.

Good luck!

Otherwise, tell us more about yourself. You never know: might find someone interested around here...