hi, im a 25 year old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. I still love him and fancy him, but I,m just not interested in sex EVER!!! he has been so patient with me and tries to make me feel special but i just dont want to masturbate or have sex anymore. It hasnt always been like this, we used to have lots of sex and i used to enjoy masturbation too, but witin the last year all fantasies and desires have gone. PLEASE give me some advice as i fear our relationship is on a destruction course because of this as my boyfriend is so frustrated with me and i dont know how i can change things. When we do have sex, i just lay there wishing for it to be over so i can go to sleep!! HELP

After the 5 years living with my husband I had lost my sex drive too. I used Sentia pills to return it.

It may also be a matter of culture (erotic culture). The more you are cultured, the more you can eroticize life.

Do you take drugs, eat junk food, or had a rigid education?

Do you happen to masturbate yourself?

It's what we eat and don't eat.

A lot of the things we eat kill our libidos.

Then we don't eat the things we need to repair and restore our bodies.

Unfortunately for us men, women's sex drive usually affected more than ours. You lose interest and we get frustrated and angry.

You can fix the problem pretty easily. It can take a couple of weeks, but the effects are a natural restoration of your sex drive and better orgasms.

Check out:

www.easyorgasmdiet.com/cure-my-sex-drive/

It's a common thing. My main advice is to have a break. Just don't think about it and don't worry. May be you are "fed up" and need some time to grow hungry. My second advice is to try Sentia pills for women which increase sex drive. These pills consist of herbs so they are safe.

Dont worry to much, that just make's it worse. I've been with my fella 4 7 years now and only a couple of months ago the same thing happened me. I felt like crap because i felt i couldnt tell him incase i hurt him, so i decided 2 try and work things out 4 myself. I felt like everything had become a routine so i thought why not do the things we used 2 do... so... we went on a 1st date again and pretended like we never met, the chemistry was amazing... i felt just like it did at the begining... and when we got home... wow... it was great. So from now on if i feel like im getting bored then i just ask him out like its a first date again its brillant.. good luck hope everything works out 4 u... and remember dont stress about it to much

I have one question? Are u on birth control pills? I found that when I was on the pill, it really affected my sex drive to the point I only wanted sex once a month. Sometimes birth control pills affect your sex drive intentionally. Due to the hormones that are in the pills, it decreases your sex drive to the point of making you not want to have sex, to prevent pregnancy. Something to think about.

Hi , seems to me you are suffereing from the 7 year-itch. Sex is THE most important thing in most men's relationship. it means you love him..nothing else will do.You are hurting him in the worst way possible, rejecting sex..no kidding .the worst! Yes you are risking losing it all to some little tart who will....so you need some tips to jumpstart your brain .
Read sexy stories - on your own with a buzzy friend..I found sexy stories helped me to get the tingle back.. Pretend you are in a porn film (step out of youself). Ask him to do something for you, and then 'reward him'. This is the stage in your relationship when you will unerstand why long marrieds say "we sometimes had to work at it" Eventually your libido will kick start.I am proof..for now..act!
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