ive been with my partner 4 yrs and sex is great. we both enjoy it, a lot. thing is i love it when a man moans during sex, dont know why but its a real turn on 4 me. my partner doest moan. i know if i told him this he would do it as hes a real ladies man. BUT... if i told him and he started moaning during sex, i know it wouldnt be genuin.
mind boggler, i know, but any suggestions are very welcome.
sarah xxx

I had a similar thing with my boyfriend. Just speak to him about it, but be subtle - if you say its okay for him to do it you may find he's just been holding back. Just because he's not doing it now, doesn't mean he doesn't want to.