My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We love each other very much, but for almost all of our relationship she has suffered...or more to the point, I have suffered, from her low libido. She has no problem reaching orgasm, usually she has several during sex, so that's not the problem.

Most of the time we have sex only once a month, sometimes twice or at times not at all. I never pressure her for sex as I beleive that it is her body and her emotional attitude and that it should be her decision as to what and when she wants something. I have maintained this attitude throughout our marriage in the hope that maybe change and increased libido will find it's way naturally and through nurturing.

It hasn't. And now that we are into our mid to late 30's I don't see it improving in the future.

I am at the end of my tether, I find myself frustrated and angry. The promise of "forsaking all others, until death do us part" is all that stops me from looking elsewhere, but I am afraid that I am out of patience and that I will only show resentment and callous avoidance towards the woman that means more than anything to me.

I do not want my wife and 18 month old son or our marriage to suffer from a bitter atmosphere in our house just because of something as simple as sex.

What can I do?

hi, I'm facing the same situation. Ealry 30's, married for 10 years with a two year old daughter. Frustrated and angry you say, i couldn't agree more. Have tried EVERYTHING !!!
Maybe this is how are wifes are and we should just look for sex elsewhere...

hi there iam a wife and guess what my husband does not give me nothing, ive gone months without,i do understand that he his tired he does work hard, but i have needs.i have a very high sex drive, i have tried everything sexy underwear sex toys, i even made him a movie if you no what i mean, but nothing. i dont want to cheat but i just cant cope, i shouldnt be doing it myself,i thought maybe if i slept with a women its not realy cheating or is it.

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I am normally so tired by the end of the day (work full time, 3 yr old child) that I fall into bed exhausted, sex is the last thing on my mind. But its really getting to my husband. The thing is when we do have sex its fantastic, I just struggle to get into the mood. So hope this pills work!