Hi all,

I'm writing an article about how a large penis isn't always a great thing and can actually stop couples from having sex or cause major rows... anyone here have this experience in their relationship??

Don't know if this helps but i have the opposite problem. My penis is tiny, under 3 inches when erect and i have never been able to keep a gf. most have just laughed and said i dont even have enough to play with, all have left me except my current gf, who still laughs at it too.
we tried sex once but she said it just didnt work for her as there wasnt enough to get inside her.
since then we just stuck to me licking her but now she says she has been seeing another guy who is much bigger and gives her the pleasure she wants. I'm scared i am going to lose her to him but what can i do. like i said no other girl has even be interested

hello me and my partner have been together for 6 years and his pi-enis has got bigger and bigger i am quite small and we use alot of lubricant but if one of us pushes a bit to far in the heat of the moment or usually when he cus it hurts so much and for a while i have been to the doctor before and he has told me i have brusing on my insides its not intenshioal just frustrating and quite oftern i dont want to have sex

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my husband is well endowed and he expects me to put the whole thing in my mouth. It's impossible for me to do this and he doesn't understand that. We sometimes get into arguments because of this. He should try being on the other side of the fence.

MY BOYFRIEND OF 7 YEARS IS QUITE WELL-ENDOWED...AT LEAST 8.5 TO 9 INCHES LONG! I LOVE HIS BIG PENIS AND I'M VERY SEXUALLY AROUSED BY IT; HOWEVER,HE DOESN'T REALIZE HIS SEXUAL STRENGTH AND OFTEN GETS CARRIED AWAY IN THE BEDROOM. I UNDERSTAND THAT A WOMAN'S VAGINA CAN EXPAND WIDE ENOUGH TO HAVE A BABY BUT I HAVE A VERY TIGHT VAGINA. BECAUSE HE IS SO TURNED ON BY MY SMALLER VAGINA, HAVING SEX WITH HIM IS PAINFUL. AFTERWARDS, I HAVE TO SOAK IN THE BATH TUB TO RELIEVE THE PAIN.

Myself & my wife have had a problem with my penis size since we met 10 years ago. We have been married 8years now,& our sex life is dead. We had our daughter 3 years ago which was probably the last time we had sex properly so that we could have a baby.But even this was a struggle & my wife was pleased she got prenant quickly so that we didnt have to carry on with with full sex. We went to see counselors & have seeked advice from other sources, but it has all failed. All they tell you is have lots of foreplay, of which we already did. We both enjoy foreplay & she would be relaxed, even if she had a few drinks. But as soon as it came to penatration i could see the pain her face. Most of the time she would try & continue to plese me, but i wanted her to enjoy it properly. We love each other like mad otherwise as we dont have any other problems. Apart from our sexual problem, we hardly have any disputes. She has now admitted to me that she is having sex with someone else only for only for that reason. She says that she doesnt feel any love towards him, & she still loves me & wants to stay with me, but she just cant have sex with me. I am trying my best to get my head round it, but i dont know if i can. especialy when she is doing things now that i always wanted to try such as anal sex. So as you can see having a large penis isn't always such a good thing when you love someone & they have to go elsewhere to get they want, which is sex without the pain. This is something that i cant talk to anyone about as they think you are just boasting about the of your penis, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Sites like this are the only times you can say what are feeling.

mate you have done all the right things-she is behaving sooo badly!!! how dare she go and have sex with someone else-and tell you that its your fault!!! seriously-if she can relax enough to take any size bloke anally mate she can take anything youve got vaginally!!!!trust me-she does not love you like mad-she is utterly selfish!!! sorry...but really go find someone who appreciates you- interesting dimensions or not xx

Hi, my husband is a big fella too! Fine when we were young and excitable, but , just like your wife after the baby Oh my dog! Things got a lot more difficult..I think it didn't help that I didn't even have a natural birth experience - so I am still a bit tight. Then I am convinced the woman's homones change.., but I was physically damaged .
We can't do anal (I'm too small there too )so think of it more as her problem.
i also think she is being a total cow to you the way she is behaving and blaming you.
I think you need to find a woman who appreciates your generous bits! You know some women never feel full again after having a baby..If she can be unfaithful just for sex..so can you ..and you can make someone very happy in bed.Have an open relationship...s'only fair!
She is using you to provide for her and her baby(more than a bit spishus re the only sex with you for a baby thing if you ask me)...me & him have a great sex life now and no pain..she has jumped-ship..you deserve a woman who appreciates you!
I only wish i could handle a ...spare!-))H

Well, no, I'm not going through it, but maybe he needs to finger it before putting it in. Maybe that would help. If that doesn't work than you might have to look for other ideas on how to stimulate each other. - Lonelylover -