"Heavier partner" Posted by luvurself 28 July at 06:39
I have a new boyfriend, and he is the most amazing person i have ever met and i care a lot about him. The only problem I have is that he is a bit overweight. he works out, goes to the gym a lot, and support him fully, but when we have sex it is difficult on me to prform like i normally do. I am a very active partener but i am not used to someone bigger than me so it is difficult. Because i care about him i don't want to hurt his feelings i cannot exactly tell him that. We have talked about it and he told me that i basically just lay there, because it is difficult to be active. I really like him and i don't want the relationship to go down hill because of it. is there anyone that can give me tips or advice on how to make it easier on me so that i can be the active person i normally am and i don't lose the guy?
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