Iv been wiv my bf now for a year but have been sexually active for a few years. no matter what we try i just cant orgasm. In fact iv never had an orgasm. Weve tried oral techniques, all sorts of foreplay, different positions and lots more. I dont want toys to be involved because i want it to be just between me and him so it feels more like making love rather than just having sex. At the mo wen being clitorely stimulated I just get to a point wen im getting there but it just keeps getting more and more intense until i just cant take it any more because it becomes unbearable and i have to tell him to stop. Its like climax is further than infinity so the feeling just gets stronger wiv no end. Its not even as if its because im trying to hard or because of self conciousness or pressure because wen were doing it i dont feel like that at all. we only really think bout it wen were not doing it.

Im lucky because my bf doesnt really mind, but i do because i feel like im missing out.

Has anyone got any advise please?

Are you able to have an orgasm when your masturbating? When you know how to give yourself one when your on your own, it will help you and your bf "get there" together.