Ok my boyfriend and i have had sex 3 times and it's very pleasurable when his penis is towards the opening of my vagina but when he goes deep it really hurts. my hips start aching and i feel like he pushing on something. i have no bleeding but should we not go deep or what? what is wrong with me?

Hiya, i have the same problem, especially after sex its really painfull, i get hot and a bit dizzy. I went to the doctors about it as it was really getting me down, and the doctor said i had something called a retroversed uterus which is apparently very commen in women, around 40% i think it was. Anyway what it means is that your uterus is facing the wrong direction (It causes no other problems and does not interfere with getting pregnant) but when your man penetrates you hes hitting your uterus wall if he goes too deep which causes the pain. Apparently its the equivalent to a man being kicked in his balls. I found that using lubricants helped quite alot, i still get the pain but not as often.
Anyway hope this helps.
Louise xx

I have had exactly the same problem. I have had sex twice and when my partner pentetrates further it really hurts. I also have not experienced any bleeding as yet, but I presume this may be because he has not gone deep enough as i find the penetration too painful. I think new positions may help, however I guess the more you do it the less painful it gets.

could it be that your hymen has not yet been penetrated? Honestly I never had the problem, as I am a horse back rider. My Gyn said its been gone for some time even before I lost my virginity. But acording to my anatomy and Physiology book the vagina is only 3-4 in anyways. Though that is kinda hard for me to believe... Any way just a though.

What you've described is exactly the same problem I had when my boyfriend I and started having sex. 3-4 times into our sexual encounters and it really felt bad when he went deep. However, just recently? I found that if we try different positions it actually feels alot better. Also, we've had sex alot more so that might also have helped.

I am unsure as to what position you and your boyfriend use, but ours was missionary and once we tried on top and side-by-side there was a big difference. Just give it time and try a different style. I suggest the position the resembles spooning. I am sure its illustrated somewhere on this site. Things will get better I am sure. Remember, theres nothing wrong with you, lol.