Me and my husband are having sex once every 2 weeks, this is because, while having sex I seem to get very sore

I thought it could be the condom so we have tried different brands, we also used KY gel. as im getting dry every fast, but noting seems to be working.

I feel sore for like days after. The deep inside is fine, its just the entrance.

Doc has given us so many ideas but all failed. don't want to go on pill as its only 70% safe.

It hurts when I go for a wee after too.

any ideas?

When I had this problem I was eventually diagnosed with a condition called lichen sclerosus it is common but not quickly diagnosed as many docs are ill informed of it, this may not be your problem but google it and see if the symptoms match - might be worth a try xxxx

the pill is something like 98.something% safe!!! really!! its a great option and if the condoms are causing you a problem it could be the answer for you-use lots of lube too-lots!!!! go bavk to your doc if youre still having trouble-you could have an infection-good luck

Is your husband well endowed? If he is, then maybe he needs to go slower. Or maybe you're not getting aroused enough before he penetrates you, make sure there's plenty of foreplay. Him giving you oral sex is one way to help.