hi im nearly 17 me and my long term boyfriend first had sex in march, we were both virgins but 8/10 times wen we have sex it hurt when its deep. i dont normally get much pleasure. we've tried sooooooo many positions but no luck. please help because its upsetting for me and him, because he wants me to get some pleasure.!!!!!!!

I definitely agree of what she said take your time exploring in each other. nonetheless, both of u should have a good conversation of what turns both of u on during sex.

I never had sex till I was 27 (by choice), till I found the right man to do it,,which is now my husband. Our first 2 weeks together should I say 'really' tough, I even bleed. I never fingered nor masturbate till my first sex experience with him. I didn't get much pleasure either during that time and we've tried different positions too, but it was all pain that I felt. He was very patient in giving me stimulation by exploring my whole body and he taught me how to give him pleasure too.

so, it's a give and take process but u wouldn't know until u start to converse.

Take time out to really get to know your likes/dislikes, by spending time touching, kissing ad fondling each other. You have all the time in the world to find out your desires, and wishes.
You don't say whether you have ever masturbated before, and you don't need to say to me. Say to yourself - have I masturbated, and was it good?
If yes, then ask him to stimulate you (as part of foreplay), in the same way. Spend time talking about sex, phoning/ texting each other, telling each other what you would like to do to each other.You decide the boundaries and limits, between you.
It's good he wants you to have pleasure, he is a good guy so tell him you want a physical break, to 'think about pleasure', and do just that.We are meant to enjoy our bodies, so that is what should happen.And, YOU ARE YOUNG!! Enjoy youth!!!!