Ok Ill post a copy of my last post after I complete this. Its been 3 weeks since we have made love. Ive told ya'll before that I am a VERY sexually active person. I could have sex every day and still want more. I truly think Im an addict, but thats besides the point.
I can initiate sex, he'll be hard, and still not be 'turned on' I dunno what to do!!! It not that he has problem getting up.... even when he is 'up' hes still not really intrested. If I push the point Ill get what I want to a point... But it feels like Im raping him cause he is just going through the motions and really does not want to do it. I have come so close to cheating on someone I love so much, Its getting harder and harder to turn down other men when that make advances.... please help


Heres my original post from a few months ago...
OK. I dont know how to put this short, so please bare with me and help if you can. My BF and I have been together about 2 years now. His sex drive has never been very high. He says that even with past GF it has been the same way. My sex drive however is extreme, he can look at me and BANG Im ready! The sex we do have is incredible and I make sure he knows this, ya know, feed the ego...? I had hoped that this would help. Now, its been about a year since we have started having sex and its not changed. I dont want to change him as a person, I just want more sex. We have talked about it and he apologises, but I dont guess its really something he can controll, right? Ive though about finding a way to get my hands on viagra or something and slip it to him... but that would be wrong and prolly couldnt bring my self to do it, even if I could get some....He calls himself old, hes 32! Does anyone have any ideas? Please help!

i have the same problem as you.after sex i feel frustated i want more too.i love sex with my boyfriend but he dont last long also i want to do diffrent ways too but he dont iam 37 hes 34

Hi Girls,i must say this please dont cheat if you love your man, as thers know comeing back from cheating you will feel so bad,have you tryed porn for you & maybe him? it mite help,i get my vibeo out after we've had sex because i always want more,he has to get down on me to make me come as he cant make me come with just sex,i hope this helps you both & good luck.