I have read all the postings on bi-sexuality but all seem to be from women, what if you think your husband may be bi-sexual. I am having a hard time with the concept, we have a great very active sex life that just keeps getting better as we age, but his internet use is a little irksome and yes I look at his history. I have my reasons for this,namely infidelity in the early years and this is where I saw that he told someone he is a bit bi. The whole thing is repulsive to me and I don't understand why he would want another man to see him jack off.
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I understand that it can be pretty disturbing if it is your partner or husband. The thing is since I am not a guy I can not speak for him, but can speak as a women who doesnt mind being doing the odd stuff here and there with another women. To me its like I could never be in love with a women but at the same time understand that we could care for each other maybe in a different way. Him saying or thinking he is a bi- doesnt mean there is something wrong with ur relationship or he doesnt love you, it might just either be a phase in which case he wishes to experiment or that he just finds both sexes attractive. I know this might not be what you want to do, but communication about this is vital to avoid any build up of anything that can ruin the relationship.

I hope this helps
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