Most of the guys who i've been with would pull out and cum.
The guy who i've been with the last 2 months will last over to well over an hour typically(longer than anyone i'd ever been with) but i don't think he cums. He usually quits when he gets tired out or if he gets soft after we're together that long. Is it acutally cuming when he gets soft. How do I know whether or not he does?

sweetheart please tell me youre not having unprotected sex?????? even if you are on the pill - and i suspect you are not - condoms,condoms,condoms!!! please!!! pregnancy is the least of your worries from unprotected sex - you could be catching anything!!! you would know if he was ejaculating....apart from the fact that most fellas are fairly loud - there is ejaculate wherever they cum....but this doesnt mean you cant get pregnant or catch stuff - there is sperm in pre-ejaculate fluid - thats the clearish stuff when he gets an erection - now...why is he not cumming....he may not want to ?? unusual - but possible...he may just have a high need for stimulation....he may be unwell....maybe he is used to doing it himself and is just so used to it he doesnt quite get there with you-in that case he could finish off himself - before he gets soft and its all over!!! ask him - talk about what turns you on and ask him what does it for him - good luck and please go and get some condoms and use them!!!xx

The pre-ejaculate fluid really has sperm?? Damn, talk about me being dumb!

Erm mind if I ask a question?
lets say the guy has been with lots of girls, and you havent, erm well are there any like tests that can be bought over the counter to confirm he doesnt have anything??