i had bay 7 months ago whilst i was pregnant i wasnt keen on sex i just felt sick and i has a dicicult pregnancy now i have given birth i though great it will go back to how it was before but it hasnt every night i reject him we hav sex 2 times a week but i feel as though i have to coz were getting married i dont kno whyi feel like this i think am fat and ugly so maybe that doesnt help can anyone give me tips on how to suduce him and how to feel good about myself during sex! help needed thanks

if you type "sex and pregnancy" here on sofeminine you can find interesting advices.
You are not alone!

it's normal you feel like that after a pregnancy.
It's a psychological and physical effort that all women do.

Now, you just need to recover, get fit again and you'll see that everything will be allright.
Most of the time it's just in our mind. Your husband loves you and I'm sure he understands you.
Speak to him about that and explain him how you feel and you need to slow down a little bit.
Start with foreheads and ask him to play a bit more with you, do not rush!
You need to take your time to feel "feminine" and sexy again, no, sorry, even a pregnant woman is sexy!
Don't feel down. You just need your time and your man must understands you and supports you!

Good luck!

S.

hi you cant be fat or ugly as he wouldnt be able to get it up,he finds you sexy,you need think of something that realy turns you on & try forplay,maybe even a lot of for play,it a lot to do with your hormons (sorry for the spelling)they are all massed up in pregnancy & still are after too,hope this helps.