hi
i really really need advice. basically i dont enjoy sex, why...well everytime i have sex(even though i am really turned on before hand) the guys penis alway comes out and sometimes wont go in at all! this probably sounds really strange, but even in positions where the guys directs it and has all the force you could say, like from behind, it still happens. I have tried going on top but that is just impossible! then when on the rare occasions that things go smoothly, it hurts, and after i feel really raw and sore. I really want to solve this problem cos i have never ever been satisfied with sex, i am scared i dont satisfy the guy i am with and its giving me serious doubts about myself and my sex life!
so is there something wrong with me? because i am quite a flirtatious person, i really want to like the end event of all the flirting if it comes to that, i dont want to be scared of being a disappointment everytime.
please please help
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i've had similar problems and it hasn't been with only one guy.... i enjoy the oral before but when it comes to sex, i can't seem to enjoy it and more often than not my bf's penis comes out...at first my labia hurt .. but tbh more now it feels like someone's prodding organs higher up with a pole ( i know the logistic's but still doesn't feel right)

my bf and i have only just started to sleep together (i've kinda been evading it, hoping that it was just my ex!) but after the first time, I fessed to my bf

from what i can tell, he seemed to enjoy it, but i can see my distaste/problem's with it will lead to problems!

I guess my advice is to discuss it with your partner ... and then go get it check out like i'm about to!

hope that helps!?

hey there, has this happened with more than one guy? If it's only happened with one then it could be more something that he's doing or not doing, rather than you.