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"I have my ba booked for november" Posted by melrose37 11 September at 23:28
I think that my fiance will be more than happy just to be able to feel them as he doesnt get much of a chance at the moment. Roll on November.
Mx
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"My boy's response..." Posted by cazzifer 11 September at 13:33
Wasn't exactly what i wanted...can't help with the feel thing cos haven't let him get his hands on them yet...but I showed him and he said they were 'different' great. I said good different and he said 'not really' f*cking great just what i wanted especially as I am myself a little disappointed 
hope your man likes them when they're done...just do it for yourself he'll come round when he sees them I'm sure and i've read most people on here get a natural feel after first few weeks good luck xxx
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"Mine..." Posted by ellabells 11 September at 10:02
...was really supportive and a little blase about it beforehand, but then when I had them at first he was really cautious as he didn't want to hurt me.
Now, 4 weeks later, it's like being 18 again - all I can say is that he LOVES them, and although he's not said it, he's definitely showing it! lol.
I do wonder now though - maybe he's always been a boob man but pretended not to be - he is secretly delighted I now have DDs!
Ella xx
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"Your boobs! " Posted by sweetpea1981 10 September at 22:50
Caro - they aren't his property so it really matters very little what he thinks about the way they feel! its your body and he is probably just insecure that you will run off with someone else. if something is important to you then he should respect that. my boyf (of 7 years) twittered on when i booked mine but i told him to stop being a brat,that i wouldnt change once i had had it done and if he wasnt 100% supportive i would kick his ass out!! needless to say he never uttered another negative word about it ; )
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"Hi caro" Posted by boogie1976 10 September at 18:00
My other half hasn't really said anything about my new boobs... he didn't really want me to have them done in the end. He was really supportive when I was just in the 'thinking about it' stage but when I booked it, he changed and was really against it.
I think he's deliberately not saying anything positive about them but the trouble is, it's making me feel bad about myself and I find myself criticizing them all the time.
I hope you have more luck with your bf hun.
Louise xx
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"Aww louise " Posted by lakehill 10 September at 20:44
I feel really sorry for you hun ..... I'm sure he will come round at some point. Please try not to let it get you down (((((hugs))))) ..... Men are really funny where boob jobs are concerned .... they seem to think, once we've had them done we will be running off with every man we clap eyes on lol .... but it's just not like that, is it. You take care honey, and hopefully, in time, he'll find his own way of dealing with it and compliment you, just like he should xx
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"Hi lakehill" Posted by boogie1976 10 September at 20:46
Thanks hun, I won't let it get me down... I've spent too long being put down by men and if he doesn't buck his ideas up, he can hit the road.
Louise xx
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" " Posted by carolineelizabeth 10 September at 17:48
Thanks to you all for replying. I showed him your comments and he's not so worried about it anymore. 
Caro x x x
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"Are you sure " Posted by mezodi 9 September at 19:29
this is not just any old reason for him to be putting you off. Men and boob jobs, work in mysterious ways! I cannot speak for everyone, only myself, mine feel more or less like a natural boobs (I think) (I've never felt anyone elses boobs, only my own when they were much smaller, but they do feel lovely and soft now, pretty much as I would imagine, natural boobs feel ..... Hope this helps ..... Oh and please don't be put off .... If you want this BA, you make sure you go for it, ok, and good luck Caro xx
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"..." Posted by lauricha88 9 September at 17:25
Hubby loves them to bits. He's so glad I got them done, but he wishes they were bigger... he's got booby greed!
xx
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"New bf" Posted by 19kitten79 9 September at 17:11
I am now 9 weeks post op. I met my new guy about 5 weeks ago, I decided not to tell him I had had them done and to see if he said anything! He did, but only because his prev gfriend had had hers done and so he knew but he said they look and feel very natural and he loves them and Im sure your bf will love them once they are done!
Sar x
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"Hi" Posted by samanthajane 9 September at 16:28
my SO was worried about that too but he loves my new additions a little to much i think, cant go around braless, not that im supposed to but when its in the wash i have to hide for fear of being groped too soon!!!
seriously though, he cant believe how real they feel and they havent even softened fully yet.
sam xxx
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"Hi" Posted by barbiegirl1966 5 September at 17:15
My hubby hasn't really had the benefit of them yet as I has an uplift and Ba 6 weeks ago. He is massaging them with bio oil and says they are getting softer by the day.
He is very very happy with how they look and I know when he can start to get the benefit he will be happy.
I had empty bags before lol! so the feel was not such a worry for me I just wanted to look good again. If you want to see my pics pm me.
Good luck Barb xxx
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""partner love's them" " Posted by chocolate1164 5 September at 17:01
Hiya my partner went with me to have my BA last week he is soooooooooo happy with the result.
Suzy x 
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"Hi" Posted by eiramh29 5 September at 15:01
I am 8 weeks post Op today and feel really normal now. I was concered about how my bf would like them..................I shouldn't have worried. He absolutely loves them and can't get enough. He thinks they feel and look really natural and I have to say I am surprised about how natural they look and feel too. I had 280cc unders and have gone from a B cup to a 32DD cup. Hope this helps.
Marie
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"..." Posted by carolineelizabeth 5 September at 14:39
Bump
I know theres more of you that can answer this. You're all too nice to be single! 
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"No difference..." Posted by ellesbelles 5 September at 11:40
I have had no complaints... in fact my new man didn't know until I told him! They did feel weird and hard at first, of course, but in a matter of weeks they were perfectly natural.
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"My husband..." Posted by sarahyang 5 September at 07:02
avoids talking about this. The only thing he will say is "Do it once".
In the US we were restricted to saline until recently, and I have heard people complain that overfill feels really hard, and underfill swishes too much. We just got silicone back, and people seem to love them for a natural feel.
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"Hi" Posted by lauraq4 5 September at 00:26
i havent had minedun yet im stil concidering it but my partner is looking forward to it as wel lol he has supported me so much. i really dnt think ther is nothing to worrie bout hun xx
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