ive been with my other half for a few years now!,when i first told him i was considering BA he was a bit too happy!,(dont think he thought i would go through with it??)but recently as i proceeded to book my BA he is getting increasingly unhappy?,he keeps saying those magical words"i love you the way you are!!",or is it that he doesnt want me looking good eh?LOL,its making me really stressed about the whole thing!,just wandering if any of your partners suggested it? or are even paying for it?,or are some really against it?,i am doing this for me to feel better about myself,its ok for him to oggle other big chested women!.also wanted to see what the partners are like after the ba?
anyway just interested to find out peoples vew on this?,any comments appreciated!.
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my hubby kept saying you don't need it, you are wasting money bla bla bla caused many rows. Don't know if for him it was more sbout the money I was spending and the fact he didn't want others to oggle etc but i went ahead anyway.

OMG now he is a dif person. He loves them, cant leave them alone and actually said its the best 4 grand we've spent!

what a turn around eh!

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I hav exactly the same. Mine is in 7 weeks, and as each week goes by he is making it more obvious he doesnt want me to do it. He says its fine and he was happy when we talked bout it. Weve been together 16 yrs and he says he is happy the way i am and doesnt want me to ruin them! We are paying for it together. But i want to do it and have for ages. I makes me wonder if im being selfish. We hav 5 kids and i just want to feel sexier etc.

'yes, i love you the way you are, i am a leg and bum man, nd you look great' he says.(even tho' he looks at every other big breasted bird)
'but i want bigger ... say i
'o.k anything to keep you happy'
on recovery
him 'they look ammmmaaaazing, you'll LEAVE ME now' mega sulk!!!!!!!!!!!!
MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hiya

I have been talking about getting my boobs done for 15years now...so when i told my husband of 19 years...(wow how time flie's!)that 'i'm going for it, I'm having implants' he was a little shocked but then understood totally. He said that he isn't bothered about my size (30/32aa) and it has never bothered him, but would support me. He then surprised me by saying that he would pay for my birthday present.

Then he started to do loads and loads of research about the risks, typs of implant....he did more research than i did. He then weighed rice out for me so that i could fill sandwich bags, pop them into a bra (the size i want to go to) to get an idea of size and how i would look. He has been great, i couldnt have done this with out him.

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Hi, His first words were they are amazing!! - i have been with my husband a total of 16 yrs and have 2 kids, i decided last nov and had saved it to favourites on the computer, i asked him to take a read!! i left him to it - he came back with if your sure thats wot you want, and he said he would pay for it - Great!!! - within 5 weeks i had had my op, i cant fault him at all with my recovery he has taken on the household abso everything - and when i go out with out him the compliments r to the highest standards. I always knew he was a winner!!! If its wot you want, do it, its your body - i still would have dun it even without his blessings, and i dont mean that horribly, my kids are 16 and nearly 15 it was time for me - it woz my time xxx

oh you ur soo lucky!!,hes sounds great!,i was married for 14 years,got 3 kiddies,had my new man for 3 years,and your right!,ive done my bit,im gona enjoy my new buddies!!...booked for 10th april.
thanks for all your comments....cant wait!
shani xx

Good 4 u!! - Keep in tuch any questions you need ansad just ask! Even b4 the op cos im sure u will have sum - Take care xx

hi , ive been with my partner for almost 6 years and had wanted a ba even before i met him , i used to joke about having it and then dec 06 he said he would help me pay for the op and i had them done in january 07 and we both love them ,he is even going mad on sexy undies and wants to buy me loads of them,so were both happy and im so glad he has been supportive of me ,i would say to anyone concidering a ba to just go for it as its your body and weather he likes your body or not doesnt mean you do, so make sure its to help make you happier, x shell

I've been with my husband for 11 years and have 2 kids, I have thought about having ba in the past but not seriously until about 6 months ago. He was really happy about it to start with until he realised I was actually going to go ahead with it, then he started the same, "I like you as you are" etc!!! I had my ba on the 7th, 8 days ago. Even on the way to the hospital he was saying " You know I don't really want you to have this done." He left me at the hospital and came back to get me the next morning, you should have seen his face when he saw them - he loves them!! Go for it - he'll moan and moan until you've had it done but he'll love them just as much as you when you have them!!!
Jen xxx

men terrible arnt they....they will be jealous if we get ba but who cares i wana be walking down strret and people looking lol

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ive been with my boyf for 6 yrs, and i have talked about having it done the whole time we have been together.
he says as long as its defo what i want then i should go for it.
ive become more paranoid about my body since having our son nearly 3 yrs ago and things in the bedroom arent great cuz i dont wanna get my top off (silly i know seeings we know each other so well).
it wud be an awesome confident boost for me so im going for it now i have funds available to me (my choice so im paying).
hope this helps?