me and my partner have been trying for a baby for around a month now.
i ovulated on the 4th may and had intercourse that night.
i have had several symptoms of pregnancy lately such as
* stomach cramps
* headaches
* bleeding gums
* feeling of sickness but not actually being sick
* very tired, not wanting to do things
* backache, specially when carrying around my 19 months old nephew, never had the backache before with him

i had pains like period pains about 6 days ago.

since we have had intercourse without contraception my bf has changed. im sure he has changed hsi mind. when i told him about the symptoms he said i was over reacting.

can anyone shed some light on this??

Did you and you bf discuss having a baby properly before you started tryng? It could just be that he may be does not expect it to happen straight away and so is just keeping up his guard?

The best thing to do is just to talk to him - ask him if he is having doubts or what he is worried about.

On the side i so wish to warn you. I do not want to appear negitive and i hope more than anything you are pregnant - bu when my husband and i started trying i was devasted after the first month. I too was having all the signs of pregnancy i'd even had what i thought was a bit of implantation bleeding. When i finally came on both of us were upset as we had got our hopes up. Try not to read tooo much into symtoms - i know this is easier said that done. But the very best of luck - i hope it all works out and if it is not his month i am sure it will happen soon!!

thanks for the help!!

i thought we had spoke through it properly, it was even him who decided on the time we started trying. i thoguht it was what he really wanted. he is 7 yrs older than me.

i am going to wait until next week as thuis si when my period is due. if no sign i am going to have to have a serious chat with him and see what it is he really wants.

thanks again, it was really appreciated