I'm so sorry about your little boy, Shay is a very beautiful name btw.
making the decision to try again is a huge one and i just wanted to wish you luck.
i understand the need that you feel as i once felt it too and i hope that you find the support that you are going to need. it's not easy to try again after a loss but i honestly do hope that your dreams come true

Hi ladies,
I don't know if any of u on here will remember me, i was on the expecting a baby board up until feb, which is when i had my baby boy Shay, i had been having a relatively easy pregnancy, and then one day i felt no movement from baby so went into get it checked out,i was 38 weeks gone, well that is when my world ended, my baby had heart failure due to a heart defect which i knew nothing about, my gorgeous little boy died 2 days later, i am totally devastated and nothing will be the same ever again.

I have this incredible urge to be a mother, not to replace Shay in any way.
I am waiting on post mortem results to come back before i do start trying agian, which i hope will be in a few weeks time, the thing is my periods have not returned yet and i have just started using ov tests to get to grips with my cycle.

Thats all really, just want to say hi and i hope i will be chatting to you all very soon,x

hi hun
i remember reading ur story,i didnt no what to say and i still dont.im glad to hear that ur gunna try again,i couldnt imagine for a second what you have been through.i hope all goes well and hope to hear from you soon back ttc
tc linzi xxxxxx

I've read your post several times now and just can't think of the right thing to write but didn't want to not reply if you know what i mean ...

My heart breaks for you.

Just wanted to say Hi and send you some great big hugs !!!!!

Look forward to hearing from you soon.

x x x

i understand, most people don't know what to say to me, even my family and friends.
Thank you for replying though xx

i just dont know what to say but i am so sorry that you lost you little angel i feel heartbroken for you. I came across this forum by accident a few months ago and have found the ladies on here remarkable they have constantly given me support, advice and hope.

sending you loads of hugs

amy x

I cannot imaging the pain & grief you must be feeling at this sad time. My heart goes out to you & your OH. In time your pain may not disappear but it will lesson as your little angel will want you to try again when you're ready.

tc xxx

i can being to imagine what you have been and are going though, but my heart truly goes out to you and i send big hugs your way.
i hope you get the results soon, at least answers may help a little.

Having an urge to become a mother again doesnt mean you want to replace Shay in any way at all, it just means that your ready.

OV testing is a good start, why not try temping too that should help.
My cycles are all over the place i am currently on cd79, and temping or ov tests say i dont ov, so i am waiting for a hospital appointment.

good luck and tc xxx

you're more than welcome to join us, we have lots of nice and sometimes random chats on ttc as well as a good old laugh which can take away some of the stress of trying. The girls are also so supportive and you can ask or say anything, I find this place keeps me sane.
I cannot begin to imagine what you've been through and just hope that you are beginning to find some peace.

Looking forward to chatting with you

Rach x x x

Thank you ladies who replied to my post, it will be hard when i do start to try again, but it is something i have to do and i don't think i'll ever be "ready" as such but a need to be a mother is so strong.

Hope to chat to u all soon, i'll need ur support and in return i will try an support all of u 2, xx

I'm so sorry about your little boy, Shay is a very beautiful name btw.
making the decision to try again is a huge one and i just wanted to wish you luck.
i understand the need that you feel as i once felt it too and i hope that you find the support that you are going to need. it's not easy to try again after a loss but i honestly do hope that your dreams come true