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Posted by dani22003 16 September  at  20:02

Hi there, I am 22 and just suffered my 2nd miscarriage in 2 months. Obviously heart broken and feeling very alone, I was hoping to hear some advise or stories that will help me build my hope once more.
I have no children and I am really concerned that I wont.

Please share stories


Thank you
 
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"I know its hard"
Posted by sammy446 19 September  at  19:13

i had 2 mscgs then my little boy then another mcrg then a suspected molar then 4 mscges and then my daughter then i had a dnc and another mscge and now im preg again its been really hard at times and at one point i had to abort because i couldnt handle the strain of another preg/mcrg but all is ok so far you need to be possitive cuz if its gonna happen it will theres nothing you can do to change that but stressing will make it worse.
It may be hard but you will love your children so much more cuz of what youve been thru
xxx
good luck
"Hi there"
Posted by yveymc 19 September  at  10:32

im so sorry to hear about your loss. ive had 4 misses myself and know exatley how you feel. i have just found out im pregnant again and having to take steriods to try and keep the baby (only 6 weeks). you will never get over what youve been through but it does get easier. try and stay positive, i found reflexology and reiki worked a treat, it just chills you completely but can be expensive.
take care
y
x
"Hello..."
Posted by viajon2 18 September  at  04:20

hi,
my name is olivia, i have one sone which almost 2 yers this oct.i'm very
sorry to hear for what u have been thru. for ur information i also suffered form my 2nd miscarrige. from what my doctor said my baby stop growing inside me. it's the same thing happened to my 2nd miscarrige. my doctor told me that i should need rest about 6 monthsbefore i'm going to concieve again, so it was next year on march. we both had suffer from miscarrige and i know how u feel. i really hope that your next pregnancy will be just fine...
"Sure it will happen for you"
Posted by coccyx 18 September  at  01:21

Dani, its a horrible time for you now, but odds are on your side for a successful pregnancy. I had 6 miscarriages before we had our daughter. At times i felt like never trying again, then i thought NO I WILL HAVE A SUCCESSFUL PREGNANCY. Sure you will find the ladies on this site very helpful. Take care
"Hi dani"
Posted by reesy 17 September  at  10:46

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had 2 miscarriages in the last year and as yet have no children. I'm 29 and hoping that this month will be my lucky month and I'll get my BFP.

It's so hard trying to get over the loss, I was convinced that there was no way I could be unlucky enough to lose my second child, but it happened. My mother lost 2 babies before I came along so I'm now holding on the the fact that the next pregnancy will be a healthy one.

Just because you've had 2 miscarriages, it doesnt mean you'll have another. Third time lucky remember. You're only 22 (you lucky thing) so youth is on your side.

I shall let you know by the end of the week if I have my BFP (I think I'll be letting the world know).

Try to stay positive, you are not alone and most women who miscarry go on to have perfectly healthy babies.

Good luck - I'm here if you need anything.

Sarah. x
"Passing on advice"
Posted by lisamerchant86 16 September  at  20:17

hey there, i post a discussion after falling pregnant just days after a miscarriage, and this is what someone posted to me this person miscarried twice and is currently pregnant again
hope it helps and builds u up to try again


I just wanted to let you know that I really do undertand how you feel. Ihad my first miscarriage in May, I was obly about 4 and a half weeks. When I got pregnant again in July I was thrilled but so so scared and felt really stressed every day after I got the positive test. Anyway, I lost that baby too on 29th July when I was just 5 weeks.

However, I found out early last week that I am pregnant again without having a period since my last m/c. I think I am now 6 and a half weeks and baby is still hanging on in there!

This pregnancy I am trying to stay positive. I have decided that all the worrying I did in my second pregnancy didn't stop the worst from happening so I might as well try to chill out and enjoy it!

Try to stay positive hun. I do know how hard it is but there's every chance that this pregnancy will be just fine.




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