im feeling so sad and empty at the moment. i was 6 weeks and knew as soon as it started, i was phyically sick. went for a scan on friday and everythin had gone. today im just numb and dont want to see or talk to anyone. when i think about seeing people it turns my stomach. last night i just sat and drank a bottle of wine to try and take it all away but it dosnt. i really felt positive about it this time and its all been taken away again. i cant eat, sleep or do anythin at the moment. im think i need counciling this time because i dont think i can cope anymore.
really sad and so in need of a baby to love and hold!
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its so horrible ive had 8 alltogether and this one isnt looking too good either but ive still got my fingers crossed. It can be a number of things that stop it from happening at one point i was told that i couldnt have girls, its all just guess work cuz i now have a beautiful daughter. With me i think stress plays a big part im always run off my feet and the 2 times ive had my children has been while my partner has been away , i know it sounds strange but it gave me something else to focus on and i wasnt just panicing about every move i made. so im trying get him go stop at friends for a week or 2 till things are settled and ok. Which proves my point it can me the most trivial of things but you cn have tests but we didnt want to have any blame on one of us and took things as they come. good luck and mail me if you need to talk.
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They found most probable cause for my recurrent misc was something called balanced translocation in my hubbies sperm. Some of the chromosomes in some of his sperm were mixed up. If we got a dodgey sperm ,pregnancy not able to progress.If we got a good sperm we had same chances as any one else.

theyve found out i had sticky blood so had to take asprin with my third pregnancy, but still lost, so on my 4th another test for natural killer cells, this is still in research and not proven but steriods have helped other women. i started taking steriods as soon as i found out but i missed again. went to the hozi friday and i have had all the test possible, so feel like there is nothing else i can do. time is not on my side as im 40 at the end of the year. the one thankful thing is i do have a beautiful daughter aged 12 and she is my life together with my husband. i do think im a lucky person to have had a child but it dosnt take away the pain of my losses.
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So sorry to hear of your loss. I had 6 misc before my first daughter so i know the dispair and emptiness you feel. Think councilling would be great and i hope you are being investigated for possible reason for recurrent misc. Have you tried the miscarrige association? My thoughts are with you but never give up

It is hard to know what to say except sorry and my feelings are with you and your partner. I have had two and only one of them was confirmed. My confirmed one was only 2 weeks ago. I think that maybe as you ahve had 5 that you could go to the hospital for tests as to why this is happening, I think that a trip to your docs to be refered may be the answer. I think taht this may help you and your partner, there maybe somthing medical that is causing the m/c. Never give up hope i belive that you will have what you want. be stong and dont shut your partner out. Talking about your feelings helps and have a good cry sometimes that helps to.
I hope i have helped a little a least.
Jan. Many hugs for you.

im so sorry for your loss i 2 have suffered losses last one back in aug so i no a little about how your feeling, as you have had so many losses have the hospital run any tests into what causing them hun? x michelle