After a couple miscarriages and an ectopic my husband I are TTC again. Peoples advise just doesn't seem helpful when all they say is 'Relax' and I can assure you I am very 'Relaxed' I just want to get pregnant and have a baby just like everyone else. Why is it so very easy for some but the hardest thing in the world for others? Fingers & toes crossed for you/me and everyone! xx

we had a m/c in may 2005. so we decided to start tyring again straight away. i was like you desperate to get pregnant and start a family.

it took us 2 years to concieve again. the last couple of months before we had practically given up and were more relaxed about it. then it happened 2 years to the m/c.

hope you get your BFP very soon.
take care
stacey and 31wk bump xx

i also hate it when people say "try and relax" when you are !! ive also had a few m/c and at the moment feel relaxed, just want to be preggers
lets hope it happens for us soon x

I've had 2 miscarriages in just over 12 months. When I havent been pregnant, I've been ttc. I honestly thought I was relaxed about it, the problem is it's still the biggest focus you have and wether you realise it or not, you are'nt as relaxed as you think.

My oh and I decided to set the date for our wedding in september. All of a sudden all my attention was on planning the wedding, colour schemes, dresses, etc. When I didnt get my af in october I honestly thought 'no way!'. I did a test and there it was, POSITIVE!!

I used to get miffed with people saying relax. I dont think it's about trying to relax it's about reducing the focus on it, which in turn results in automatically being more naturally relaxed. I hope this makes sence!!

Anyway, good luck girls, you'll get there.

Love and baby dust to you both.

Sarah & 6 week 'bump to be'. xx