hello. i know that this message is old, but i recently had a misscarriage and my doctor told me that we are very fertile after having a miscarriage, an abortion or after giving birth.

has any one fallen pregnant so soon after a misscarriage. i lost m baby at 7 weeks, 6 weeks ago. am now pregnant and so scared it going to happen again. i cant sleep as i keep having nitemares ill loose it. am scared to go to the loo as thats whn it happens last time. am trying my best to keep clam but when ever i get an ache or slite pain i start to panick.

please help. xxxxxxxx

hello. i know that this message is old, but i recently had a misscarriage and my doctor told me that we are very fertile after having a miscarriage, an abortion or after giving birth.

I am in your position too. I had my second miscarriage on 1st October at 6 weeks. It was devastating, one's enough, but two!!!!

We went on holiday to Corfu a few weeks later just for a wee break and for some sun but the weather was awful and ended up spending quite a lot of time in the room!!! When we got back we were due at the hospital on 6th Nov for some routine blood tests. As I haven't had a af since miscarrying they did a urine test and it showed I was pregnant!! We were in total shock but obviously delighted. I'm only 5+ weeks and I'm due for a scan at 7 weeks, I hope this time I go it'll be different. The last twice they saw nothing, this time I'm hoping for a little sac and a wee sqiggle inside and most of all a heartbeat.

I too, like you, analyse every little niggle, pain and feeling and always look when I go to the loo but you've just got to try n stay positive otherwise you'll drive yourself mad!!!

Have you been to the docs/hospital yet?

Anytime you need to talk please just mail me, we can bounce of each other.

Love n hugs

Liz xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi, I know why you are scared, but go straight to your doctor, most areas will look after you better after a misscarriage, it seams silly but the care improves till about 5 losses, then forget it.

Was the last one your irst pregnancy, most miscariages are the first time ones.

My advice is rest, even if you do what i did, get signed of and put on bed rest, boring but less strain.

thank u all for your repies.
no this was my 3rd pregnancy i have 2 girls aged 9 and 2.
i have been to my docs and my midwife appointment is on the 22nd am hoping she will get in for an early scan.


thanking u all.
babyluv1982

May I respectfully refer you to lisamerchant's thread below -

Congratulations - all the very best to you

Lisa

thank u for your reply. am new to this and didnt think i would get a reply xx
baby luv1982

So stick with it - when I lost my baby I felt I had no-one who understood - I found those people here.

Just take really good care of yourself and that little one - we're all routing for you!!!

Lisa x x x