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"There is still hope!" Posted by mmtk3 6 April at 03:32
Hi. I am sorry for your loss. I have been there. This may not make you feel much better but miscarriages are very common. 33% of women have at least 1 miscarriage. I am 35 so I know what you are going through.(I have had 2 mc) But I am happy to report that I am 11 weeks pg with my 2nd and so far, so good. If you are having problems conceiving, check with your ob. Once you get pg, make sure your ob monitors you. Fortunately, I have a great ob. They should do bloodwork to make sure your levels are in check. They can give you meds if your progesterone is out of whack.(that was my problem) Good luck!
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"So sorry for you" Posted by crazycat77 1 April at 18:01
Hi there,
I had a miscarriage at 11 half weeks at the end of November last year. The scan was showing that the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. Following 2 short periods I am now pregnant again just gone 9 weeks & chuffed to bits. The doctor told me to wait until after my next period before trying again & it worked. Sorry to hear you miscarried but don't blame yourself, I was surprised after mine how common it is, & a lot of women go on to have healthy babies the next time around. Good luck & keep us posted how your getting on. Cath xxx
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"Thankyou" Posted by cealij 1 April at 17:19
...you made me realise i am not alone, i thought i had got to the 12 week safety point but i started to bleed and went for a scan only to be told that my baby had stopped developing at 7 weeks. My husband and i were distraught how could our first attemp at becoming parents be so cruelly taken from us? I fell pregnant quickly last time and am hopeing for simular results but know i am going to be so frightened of a second miscarriage i even started to wonder is it worth it all but i did a search on the internet and found that some brave women have several misscarriages before a succesfull pregnancy. I'll give you a tip though to decrease your chances of a miscarriage try only having sex maybe one day before you ovulate so that the sperm is at it's healthiest when it reaches the egg, it can make a difference. I'm going to try this method and i'm hoping for the best but i want children so much it is worth a little heart ache to finally get there will feel like a miracle and i wish you all the luck in the world.
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"Awww" Posted by versiongirl 23 February at 22:10
Hiya hun i am very sorry to hear of your miscarriage.I too had a miscarriage in october last year at 7 weeks and wanted to try again straight away and at present i am 6 weeks pregnant again but every twinge etc makes me panic and im not feeling sick at all just very sore boobs and extremely tired!! I would say just take each day as it comes and if its meant to happen anytime soon it will.Please dont give up and think positive!
Hayley x
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"So sorry....." Posted by ladybugtxn 19 February at 02:42
I am so sorry. I am scared also. I have a ten year old son. I was pregnant six years ago and miscarried at around six or seven weeks. We were not trying at the time. After that we decided that we wanted more so decided to try. It has taken us six years to get pregnant again. So, I am scared to death. I just feel it will happen again. Like you my clock is ticking. I'm 34. If I carry this baby to term I will be 35 by the time it is born. I don't know what to do or say to ease your pain. It is an individual thing I think. I just wanted to let you know that it is possible to get pg again. Even for someone like me who was finally resigned to the fact that I just couldn't have anymore.
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"Gutted" Posted by billybean 14 February at 22:47
Hiya, not quite sure what to say. Just wanted you to know i'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I think doctors advise on waiting 3 months before trying again, but I wouldnt. My friend had a miscariage and tried straight away and now has a baby.
Im truly thinking of you. All the best.
Christine & Bump
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"Sorry to hear you miscarried!" Posted by shelly1981 14 February at 16:58
i micarried at 8 weeks and it happened while i was having my scan,i seen a flicker of my baby and then it was gone,,i had two more kids soince and as far as i remember i concieved fairly quickly after the miscarriage,you should be fine concieving again,thinking of you shellx
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"Pregnancy after miscarriage" Posted by clair371 5 February at 13:50
Hi mumtobe1, I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage, i will be thinking about you. I had a miscarriage last may followed by a d&c, I got pregnant again in August, so it didnt take too long, Im 25 weeks now and everything is fine. Just be sure that you are ready because I worried constantly until i was about 21weeks, i still worry now, but its not as bad, I hope everything turns out ok for you, clair x
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"Colleague had a successful pregnancy after miscarriage..." Posted by marabsky 5 February at 12:00
Her miscarriage was followed by a D&C, she fell prganant again virtually immediately, she was in total shock as she wasn't over the emotions of hte miscarriage yet, and wasn't ready to be pregnant again - but alls well that ends well and she ended up giving birth to a healthy baby boy.
So good luck to you, hope you can get some inspiration and hope from this happy ending!
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"Sorry 4 u" Posted by julza 4 February at 08:23
my best friend had a misscariage at 17 and was devesatated as im sure you are shed had everything planned out the best thing you can do is confide in yor familie with everyone of your feelings im 16 and my 7 day old was hoped by everyone to become an abortion so i totally feel for you good luck and from me and eliza so sorry
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"So sorry to hear that." Posted by summerlee1 4 February at 00:15
Hi, Im sorry i dont have any advice for you on pregnancy after miscarriage but i too am 33 and have recently found out that im pregnant and I just read your post and just wanted to say how sorry i was to read your sad news. Good luck for the future x
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"Re: so sorry to hear that" Posted by mumtobe1 4 February at 01:54
Thankyou Summerlee1,
Thankyou for you kind words and wishes. I hope with all my heart that your pregnancy progresses well. Best wishes and lots of love for your little one... Xx
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"Dont worry !" Posted by meuchasmed 13 February at 12:04
Its really very sad to know about you dear. But don't u worry.. You will have one soon.. My best wishes are always there with u. Take care ...
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"So sorry" Posted by sammybaby84 18 February at 12:16
He Im so sorry to hear about ur loss. Hope u are bearing up ok? My cousin had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and fell pregnant again about a month later and now has a beautiful 18 month old girl. One of my friends also did this, miscarried at 6 weeks and then fell pregnant about 6 weeks later, she now has 2 kids. Good luck and keep you're chin up xxx
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"So sorry" Posted by kimheath 18 February at 16:09
hi hun, im so sorry for your loss. when i was 15 i had a silent miscarriage and had to have a d\c. i conceived my daughter (who is now 4yrs) 3/4 months later. there is every chance your next pregnancy wil be fine but take yor time and dont start trying until your body is ready and u are ready emotionally. good luck hun. xxx
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