okay so on Monday i got my bfp, tuesday worked out i am 5weeks, [friday now - 5weeks+3 ]
tonight i came back down from uni and my bf picked me up, we had dinner then came home. we had sex and i lay about for a bit...then i went to the toilet and when i wiped i had some pinkish redish blood on the toilet roll,i wiped 3x and each time there was less on the roll. i have no idea what to do, as i said in my previous post my bfp was very faint..could it really just of been an evap line or am i going to miscarry? its 2.30am and i cant sleep, all i can do is cry. im so so scared. graeme is getting up early tomorrow to go get me a pregnancy test, if its negative then i know that i was never pregnant and af has showed up when i very least expected it. if its positive and im bleeding in the morning then should i head to the drs, or the hospital?! what should i do? im so scared.

please help.
im sorry this is so long...

sarah-louise
xxx

I know what you are going through, and although easy to say, please try not to worry, as if you are preg stress will make you high risk.

M/c blood is norm period type colour, and has clots in, you will also get some pain norm. Then fact that you had just had sex to me would indecate that your bf may have been a bit to rough, your body changes in preg, and you can not take the normal level as you would if not preg, this is only for the first 3 months, then all is ok. If you are pos on the test, and still bleeding go to the docs though, as it needs to be noted on your records as t could be what s called a threatened m/c and this can indecate that you need to rest more, and pos need an injection to help the baby settl n you to reduce any risk.

In preg, especially in ear;ly stages, your body produce more blood as the uterus does most of its limbering up to stretch before the baby, and it is norm for you to bleed easier and bruse easy, also a comon problem is piles, and swollen blood vessels in all areas down below, so you may have just ruptured somthing their

At six weeks your little bundle of joy can be picked up on ultrsound so you can find out on six week day.

Somthing to remember is, if you are on your feet all day rest before any activity to reduce risk, but also sperm has a natural responce to the female body to open your cervix a little and this can alow anything not firmly settled to pass through.

Keep in touch and let me know how things go, having got through 25 m/c and now beeten all odds and got to 23 weeks never give up, we did and we have bundle of joy that we only found out about a short time ago when it started to move!! All docs say this for me is not possiable and they still do not believe it!!

Remember keep positive, try to relax, and any sign of pain/cramp in stomach area or period type blood symptoms go direct to medical help do not wait, sometimes early help can stop the problem from getting to bad.

Good luck
Shelly