Hi everyone.
Having a really bad day today. This is my second m/c and after having the d and c the lab report came back as a possible moler pregnancy which can be really bad but 2nd opinion came back as negative thank god. Finally some good news. And I really am glad but after finding out it was a possible of these cancerous cells (moler) it took over the pain of the m/c and was worried about the results and now they are back and all is ok I feel all the emotions are coming back of loss and emptiness. Everyone seems to think that I should just be glad that it is not the moler and get on with things but finding it really hard. Not sleeping to well either so makes everything alot worse I think when you are tired.
Sorry to go on but talking on here always helps. I just want a baby so bad and doc's have said to wait till end of Jan now before trying again. But just want it and want to start trying again.
Thanks for reading. Vic xx

hi vic

i mscarried 9 weeks ago they suspected molar as there was no fetus however the pathology results gave me all . nine weeks after mc i still had no period scan showed there was left over tissue . consultant said i need a d and c and that they need to check whether its molar. how can it be checked again if its part of the same pregnancy. sfter d and c consultnt came to see me she said it looked like ld tissue no bigger than a finger nail. so i hoping all ok

I do have a slightly different approach to most women on here.I desperately want a baby as well but I also firmly believe if it is meant to happen for me it will and if it isn't then it won't.
I have had two m/c this year one in Aug a complete at 5 wks the other in Oct at 10 wks which was a missed and I had the d&c as well.
I felt empty and very sad but also felt that if it was meant to be it would have. I hate seeing pregnant women and my sister is pregnant and we were due around the same time.
We waited for me to have a normal cycle and we are trying again.This was advised by our doctor but he also said only if I felt right in my own mind about it.Stress and worry can play a huge part in whether we can get pregnant or not.
Take care and give yourself some time.It is very early days and it will get better

Love Nicki x

I'm having a bit of a bad day today also. I miscarried last Monday and have kind of hit a point where I'm feeling that this is just it. It's an empty and horrible feeling isn ...
After speaking with other girls on here and with a friend who miscarried last Christmas I realise that I just have to go with these painful feelings cos this is me actually dealing with it. If i was just getting on with it I'd just be suppressing it.
I've noticed that people who haven't been pregnant try and help but want you to get over it co they don't like seeing you suffer whereas people who truly understand tell you to go with it. Sorry, I'm waffling now but hopefully have helped a bit?! You just try and rest and be reassured that what you're feeling is normal and it'll be end of Jan before we know it and we can both start again when we feel physically and emotionally stronger.

Rach xxx