hi all feeling very low today its been a week today since i had my evcuation and i think its sinking in today i so want a baby find it very hard to wait also very scared it will happen again feel so lost and empty and got to go back to work next week so much pressure. sorry to bring you down justed needed to offload vikki

Hey there, I know exactly how you're feeling as it's about 10 days since I lost my baby too. I'm due back in work on Monday and although i like my job and the people i work with are lovely i'm dreading it. the thought of getting up in the dark on Monday and getting back into the old routine but on the other hand i'm also thinking that it might help me move on a little bit and occupy my mind with other things. I'm planning on trying to relax over Xmas and not trying for a few months then i'll give it another go. There's so many girls on here that have been what we've been through and are now pregnant so although it's hard try not to worry too much. I'm sure one day we'll be changing smelly nappies and wishing we could have a decent nights sleep! Take care hon and message me any time, Rach x

Its been 12 days since my m/c and I'm due to start a new job on monday so I suppose it will be easier as no-one there knows me or whats happened but on the other hand I do wish I was back at my old job to get the support from my work colleagues and friends, I think we all need to try our best too have a fab (ish) wkend and as rachjones said hopefully work will keep us busy! nat xx