Hi guys,

Am feeling a bit low today, my husband and I miscarried our 4 month baby on xmas day 07. I am very up and down and today is a down day.

I would like to know if anyone is trying for a baby or if they feel the same as I do or if anyone is pregnant after miscarriage how long did it take etc.

Thanks for reading my message.
Love Lynne xxx

hi there Lynne, i'm so so sorry for your pain and your loss and at xmas too, you poor things. We lost our 3 month baby 5 weeks ago, and i thought i was pulling things together a bit, but from out of the blue i get those really down days too. I feel angry somedays then guilty and then sad- just a mixture of really tough stuff that i just don't want to hurt anymore. No one seems to understand that i just havent moved on yet. My partner was wonderful to me until recently, and just expects me to have gotten over it by now. Am i so bad in resenting him for going out to " wet the babies head" of one of his mates? It's bought all my pain back and i feel so alone. How long till you have more good days than bad? I just got my period after the horrible op, but we wants to try again asap. Lots of people have told me that it can be quicker after a miscarriage. In that we have to have a little faith.

Good luck to you Lynne x x x

How're you doing? I m/c end of Nov last year, it was my first pregnancy and was heartbreaking. I'm still having up and down days, mostly up but sometimes feel really sad for what we lost. We have started to try again but i'm trying (not sure i'm managing!) to keep it low key and stress free and not to get too obsessed!
Have you been onto trying to conceive page, there's loads of us on there who are all in same boat and it's great support and we also have a great laugh.

Take care hon and hope tomorrow is an up day.

Rach x

HI Lynne

I know how you feel.It does take time but you will heal and feel better.

I have miscarried twice.Once in Aug 07 at 5 weeks which was complete. The second in October at 11 weeks although the baby had died at 7.5 weeks. Ihad to have a d&c after this.

We are now trying again and have been since just before Christmas but no luck as yet.I am slightly luckier in the fact I have already got two children from my first marriage but it doesn't make it any the less difficult.

Take care

Love Nicki x

hi hun

i know exactly how you feel hun, tis normal to have up and down days i been like this for a long time. you need to give yourself time to heal. try and keep busy enjoy time with your other half. i know people who have got pregnant a month after miscarriage and have had healthy babies.

take care hun