I had a m/c on jan 30 and my hub and I are trying again before any family members find out i m/c. I feel bad about what happen because his grandmother is really looking forward to seeing her grandchild before she dies.I dont want her to know becaues she might get ill.We basically kept the m/c to ourselves,and hope to fall pregnant before anyone finds out.I feel pressured by my hub that i dont even enjoy sex as much as i use to.Does anyone knows how long it takes to get pregnant after a natural m/c?

just wanted to say hon that obviously altho i don't know you and your family surely your hubby's gran will understand if you tell them what you've been through. I was dreading tellin my mum and dad after i had mine cos they've waited so long and were so excited but they said that the main thing is that i'm healthy and that i don't feel pressure to get pg again. It shouldn't be this stressful for you, especially after what you've been through. You really need to put yourself first and let yourself get over your loss. When your mind and body are ready you'll conceive again.

Take care hon, Rach x x x

sorry to hear about your mc. To be honest, i think you should tell them, coz if you do fall pregnant striaght away, you will be behind what they think and when it comes to getting scans, tests and giving birth ect they will be expecting all this ealier then what you would be, how would you explain that to them? I was lucky, I mc at 6 weeks, and fell pregnant striaght away, i should about 34 weeks now, but i am only 26, there's a massive gap. There's also folk who arent as lucky to fall striaght away, one of the girls i spoke to that was on the expecting fourm, who recently had a baby, it took her 2 years to convice after her mc, other folk have conviced after a period or a couple of period. There no possiable way to know when you are going to fall pregnant again. So can you reconsider keeping it to yourselves. I am sure your family will understand about the mc and will support you get through it, if you let them.
PM me anytime
Lis