hi, I exactly know how you feel I had miscarriage for 4 times and I had to say the first one was the most devastating. Every time I had to go to hospital for operation because I did not miscarried and they had to take my babies out. The "last one" my husband had to take to another hospital for genetic tests and they found out additional chromosom 16 and it was boy. So we made some fun out of that that he drove him in the car. Maybe it sounds horrible but in this situation you can not even cry anymore. I have a great husbant so it was easier to go throught all. I had everything checked, genetics - MTHFR mutation in 2 aleas, antifosfolipid syndrom - which is main I have very thick blood which caused the miscarriages. So next time when I will be prega I have to inject myself some heparin injections. I try to concieve for 7 months and stil nothing so we decided to go for IVF with egg screaning for down syndrom and etc..
viera

Hi Ladies.
I will be a newbie to most of you but I have been here twice before. Just found out that I have lost my 3rd baby. I am totally devestated and feel so low. I no all you ladies have been through the same and this forum has been the only thing to help me through this horrible time in the past.
I had some tests done after 2nd one and all came back fine but yet it still happened again. Got to go back to the hospital on Wednesday for another hormone level and then decide what to do. It happened naturally the first time and had d and c second time. Hope it happens naturally to be honest and think it is starting as getting period pains and had brown discharge for 3 days.
Sorry for the long post.
Tc
Vic xxx

hi, I exactly know how you feel I had miscarriage for 4 times and I had to say the first one was the most devastating. Every time I had to go to hospital for operation because I did not miscarried and they had to take my babies out. The "last one" my husband had to take to another hospital for genetic tests and they found out additional chromosom 16 and it was boy. So we made some fun out of that that he drove him in the car. Maybe it sounds horrible but in this situation you can not even cry anymore. I have a great husbant so it was easier to go throught all. I had everything checked, genetics - MTHFR mutation in 2 aleas, antifosfolipid syndrom - which is main I have very thick blood which caused the miscarriages. So next time when I will be prega I have to inject myself some heparin injections. I try to concieve for 7 months and stil nothing so we decided to go for IVF with egg screaning for down syndrom and etc..
viera

Im so sorry to hear your news.
I remember in Dec that you where there for me when i had my m/c. You told me to be strong and that you where there for me. Well i can only do the same back.

I really cant understand how you are feeling. With only having one m/c but you must be a very strong person to come this far already. You are one very brave lady.

I know that you can get through this . I am sending you a big hugs and love Linzi xxxxx

Thanks so much for all your support you all seem so strong - I no that things get easier becasue of being here before but at the moment I just can't see past how horrible and sad I feel.
What scares me the most is what happens next how it will all go from here.
I hope things get easier sooner rather than later. I am lucky to have a lovely family and nice frends who care but they don't understand.
Thanks again
Vic xxx

I'm so sorry to hear your news and know there's nothing anyone can say but we're all here for you. I've had 3 m/c's too, had all the tests and like you they all came back clear so know just how low you're feeling. It's so awful when you have no idea why this keeps happening to you, it just seems so unfair and is harder to handle in some ways because there is no reason for it. I'm here anytime if you need to talk, look after yourself and please keep us informed how you're doing. I'll be thinking about you,

love, Clare xxx

I can't believe what an awful couple of days it's been, there are 4 of you on here in 2 days, it just breaks my heart, miscarriage is so cruel and unfair. I wanted to say how sorry I am and I'm thinking of you, (all 4 of you infact).

I was on here in January after a m/c (natural, but terrifying) and the girls here were such a brilliant tower of strength, I hope that you can find the same support again. I still have bad days (and probably always will) which is why I'm back here from time to time.

I hope that the next part is as painless as it possibly can be for you (emotionally and physically), let yourself grieve and then get up again and we will be here for you to help you along.

PM me/rant anytime if I can help.
Love N xxx

Hi Vic

I'm so sorry for your loss. We're all here for you anytime you need us. I know nothing i say at this moment will be helpful, but try to stay strong babes.

Thinking of you both
Big hugs to you huni
love
Paula xxxx

Hi Vic,
im so sorry to hear of your loss, I had my m/c confirmed today & im hoping for it to happen naturally too. I'll be thinking of you hun & take care.

All my love, Hellen x